alright so i am 15, and have been going out with my boyfriend for about eight months. we got along really well, but i was at a dance and we had a odd conversation. so we were talking i don't even remember about what and he just said that he has told people that he has had sex. now i know he hasn't, but this was kind of shocking. apparently he even told his mom... he said it made him sound cooler. i have never had sex, and as i said i know he hasn't. so does this mean anything? or should i not worry?
2007-12-10 01:33:56 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Unfortunately our society is weird about this. For some reason it's not cool for a guy to be a virgin at that age but it's also expected that girls are virgins. Don't let out his secret that he's a virgin. This is just his way of preventing other kids, and people from giving him a hard time, plus if everyone thinks he's not a virgin he won't be pressured into having sex too early just so he can say he's not a virgin. It's a guy thing.
2007-12-10 01:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He may have with someone else, or he may just be acting like a fool thinking it will make him cool. And at your age don't have sex. When you are a grown woman you will regret it. I know I sound like a lame old married lady but You will regret it. Even if you think you love him don't do it. The love people experience at such a young age does not compare to the love you will feel for the person you eventually make your life with. Also do not fall for the but baby i love you and want to marry you line they never mean it because something will always happen and you will get your heart broken. You may not see it now but you will when you have a life and family and children of your own.
2007-12-10 01:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay! how old are you ? how much money do you make? how many kids? If you not be over 80 unless you were left millions from your late husband with no kids> Im feeling up to the task of being your one and only boyfriend!!!! I Don't eat much, i'm potty trained. I put down the toilet seat when i'm done, i wipe my feet, take out the trash, I bring home Flowers 3 times a week, I never fart in front of ladies or in public, I will wash your back and promise not to look at your nakedness! I will even call you 3 times a day from work to say how much i miss you and love you. Oh yea! I have a bear, he likes to hump girls, i'm trying to break him of that! I don't like him humping my girl more then me! Oh yea! Sometimes when me and my bear get drunk we like to run naked through the old ladies of saint mary's nursing home, i fell off his back once while running through and was molested by 17 women!!! It was horrible!!!! I felt like i was being smothered by prunes. I have no issues! Except! Lady nursing homes! I don't like mayo except on a girl, Did i mention my bear? I have one fault! Sometimes i sleepwalk naked through the nearest park singing tip toe through the tulips. My friends and my family say i'm quite a catch but truth be known the last time i was caught was in saint mary's nursing home! I think they be making fun of me! Oh yea! once i found a talking frog! Really! I Trained him well. But i had to get rid of him cause he kept opening the bathroom door and standing outside the shower stall when i was taking a shower and instead of saying ribb-it he would croak little-dick. that was bad for the rep! I promise i won't let my bear hump you! :)
2016-05-22 11:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that age always lie about having sex! Probably about 30% of his friends who say it haven't done it either! LOL That is just a teen boy for you. Let it go, unless he is telling people he is having sex with you! Then you need to tell him if he wants to lie then lie about himself not you because you don't want that kind of image of your self put out there! Especially at 15. I was a virgin til I was 18 and people praised me for it. Believe me it's not all that it's cracked up to be unless you are old enough and find the right person. Good luck sweety!
2007-12-10 01:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by #2♥onTheWay 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What it means is that when you're 15, you're just socially awkward, all the time. You're worried to death that you'll do something embarrassing. This is just one little tiny socially retarded moment that doesn't mean a thing. I'm sure you already know that. You'll get over it in about 10 years.
Have you noticed that adults don't seem to go around dying of embarrassment all the time? You'll be like that too. So will your boyfriend, 10 years from now.
2007-12-10 01:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Firebird 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry at all.This guy is young just as you are.He just wanted to prove his manhood well ahead of others thinking that listeners of his story would give him more respect as a mature person !!!He also thought this would bring you closer to him and he is keen to have sex for the first time with you.Please do anything you like , but, don't have unprotected sex with anyone.I have to tell you this , because , you are so young and any misadventure or careless move may ruin your life.
ok?
God Bless
2007-12-10 01:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry everything is fine!!! When I was your age boys would lie allllllll the time in order to sound cooler . I don't understand it but that is what they do. But just be careful don't let your morals down and sleep with him so he can have the satisfaction and being 'cool' to have sex with you
2007-12-10 01:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by chadjohnsonfan85 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just lying to sound cool, just like you said. I wouldn't worry about it. But if you can't stop worrying about it you may want to talk to him about it.
Have you ever watched Grease? How Danny is "stretching" the truth and sandy is still being Innocent in the song "Tell Me More" Most boys are like that.
2007-12-10 04:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by just love poms(it's a dog) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex doesnt make you cooler and he has no reason to talk about stuff like that. People are gonna think that yall are sexualy active and are russing into life. He is making you look bad. You really need to talk to him and tell him how you feel!
2007-12-10 05:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeerm, intersting, this is very common for a teenage girl to experience this with her boyfreind. It' s boy thing, boys want to boast about how far they have been with a girl. It's natural.If hes told his mum then thats sort of 'weird' like you said, but if i were i wouldnt worry about it. Depending on what type of person he is i think you should about it to him. Talking things through is the best way to resolve things like this. I hopw i have answered your question.
2007-12-10 01:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋