my ex cheated, was all the things you don't want in a spouse. she's the one that left (i didn't have any intentions of stopping her at that point). Thing is it's been 7 months of trying to forget about her, what happened, her crazy family and all the drama that goes along with her. I've just started dating again. nothing serious just to get my feet wet. I'm on a few dating sites and put up a my space page. I haven't heard from my ex in over 7 months and did a lot of work within myself to try and forget. ever since i put up a my space page, her friends and her are visiting mypage constantly. I'm not butting into her business but she's got everybody looking at mine(i've got a ticker on myspace where you can see who visits). I haven't heard from her and she left after an affair. I wish she'd just leave me alone. I finally started emailing her friends asking them to leave me alone. Why are they doing this? We are history? Think I did the right thing by telling them to leave me alone? Divorce is hard enough and I really don’t want to be reminded of her and have no idea why she wants to be reminded of me. I just want to be left alone.
2007-12-10 01:32:53 · 7 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How do you know exactly who is viewing your site? Tickers are just counters, so it could be anyone. If it bothers you so much then make your page private. Only friends can view. If you really want to be left alone then you'd of already done this.
2007-12-10 01:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is dying to know what is going on with you, but doesn't want to let you know that. She probably has seen what she HAD and now has her friends checking up on you to see if you're out there dating.... Don't get on the computer for a few days, head out on the town and meet some people that way... That way, she can see that you're not at home sitting in front of the computer, which by the way is what she wants, and then you'll have some solid time getting your feet wet.
As for telling them to leave you alone, I think that was wise... Because all they are, are messengers to tell her what you said or did... Either that or they know about you, how you are (from her) and they want to see if they can get a bite too.... Who knows...
2007-12-10 01:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop plans for the wedding and the business. If he's always been like this, there is no fix. Aside from infidelity, money is an extremely painful way for a relationship to die. Also, your state may have a cruel lesson in store for you if you marry this man. From a legal standpoint, just by being married, you may have the burden of a lot of his financial decisions.
2016-05-22 11:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that,I'm in the same boat as you are just got divorced after 17yrs and the ex just can't leave me alone!! Every few months in back in court again for stupid shut...And to top it off she's 10yrs older then me(50)..and acts like a KIDS.....I feel your pain.........PS how did you get or where can I get that ticker from for my space?? Pls do tell!! send me a email...mrcc34@yahoo
2007-12-10 01:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she still loves you other wise she wouldent be doing this but anyways you want her to leave you alone then try talking to her and make her understand that shes acting like a child and to grow up to get a new life and move on. the best of luck
2007-12-10 01:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Nora+ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to communicate with any of them! When you NEVER reply they will begin to get the message..you are not available to them in anyway.
Oh..and on MYSpace you can block people. And you can make your MySpace private too.
2007-12-10 01:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should consider staying off the web and doing your dating on a face to face basis.
2007-12-10 01:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Gina C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋