says she wants to be able to hang with her guy friends like go shopping or to the mall and leave her husband home? when she is 29?
2007-12-10 00:45:00 · 14 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A wife that has some issues she isn't addressing.
A wife that probably does not want to hurt her husband - cannot even imagine herself ever doing so, and yet she may well be heading in that direction.
A wife that misses something about her past (particularly if these are friend before the marriage)
A wife that feels she can't share some experiances with her husband (possible because "he wouldn't understand")
A wife who thinks her husband doesn't listen
2007-12-10 02:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A wife who possibly believes her husband doesn't like shopping.
Maybe when shopping she uses these guys for a sounding board, like: 'Do you think i look good in this?'
Women notoriously don't believe their husbands opinions about clothing, but they do value their male friends opinions more than their female friends.
Might be just that simple.
2007-12-10 08:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by FlyingScooter 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well going to the mall isnt bad, husbands dont usually like those things, but hanging out with the guys, i dont think that is fair to the husband. i would tell her how you feel.. she what she says...
2007-12-10 08:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
guy friends go shopping ha ha ha whats next when i was married i called it going to movies he found out i was the star wake up you are dreaming shes shopping for a better lover soon you will be left all together shopping should be limit to going with[ you] [kids ] [family memberS ] are [GIRL FRIEND]
2007-12-10 09:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should give her a choice, stop it or continue on single, I'm sure she would not like it if you were going out with gal friends. In fact most women here don t like that from all the stuff I have saw
2007-12-10 09:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by john d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She really doesn't see anything wrong with it in her mind but unless the guy friends are gay it is never a good idea for all sorts of reasons.
2007-12-10 08:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by April First 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wife is just one role a woman plays in her life. She also has to be the friend, the niece, the daughter, the mother, the sister, the colleague, the cousin, I could go on and on and on. Any man who can't accept that she has friends, regardless of gender, doesn't deserve for her to be his wife. And if he doesn't feel secure with her hanging with other guys, then he has deeper issues that need to be addressed with a psychologist one on one.
2007-12-10 08:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you dont have a problem with her having guy friends then why not go along with her and her guy friends? Would she be okay is you had just girl friends that you hung out with? It should be a 2 way street on everything.. Not just a one way. Talk to her and tell her how you feel about this issue. Best Wishes...
2007-12-10 08:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bling 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Do you enjoy going to the mall ? I don't see anything wrong with that ! Some hubbys are just not fit to go shopping with their wives ! At least, she told you where and with whom she was going ! Now, stop "whining" and go with your wife to the mall !!
2007-12-10 09:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
A wife who is probably cheating...unless these guys are gay. There really is no reason to leave hubby at home.
2007-12-10 08:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋