For a guy to talk dirty to when in conversation?do you think we should avoid such person?even he sounds as not serious?when he said something like that what does he actually mean?is he okay or crazy?what is your opinon ladies?
2007-12-10 00:25:03 · 10 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't think you should avoid him..
it doesn't mean that he said something nasty or naughty that his a pervert or disrespect you..
maybe he wanted to make you laugh and add some green jokes to spice up your conversation..
don't be judgmental..
his continually doing it coz he thought your ok with it..
but if you don't like it that way..
tell him..
so he'll know that he should watch his words..
2007-12-10 00:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by TRE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it can be very poor taste when men start talking dirty in the middle of a daily conversation. You can shut him up with a quick "excuse me? that is disgusting. Do you want me to vomit all over your face?".
if you think he's joking, say it in a jokey way. that way he knows where your line in the sand lays.
when a man talks dirty it means he is comfortable with you, and attracted to you in the "i can look but i can't touch" kind of way. Nothing serious, but just a hint of physical attraction.
He's not crazy, he's just a man.
and men need to have very clear boundaries laid out for them, many mistake body language and don't realise they can make us uncomfortable when they are being sleazy.
2007-12-10 00:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by chilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how well you know this person. My guy says a lot of dirty things, but he hasn't always. As we got to know one another and he learned that I wasn't offended by dirty talk it comes out of him more and more.
If you don't like dirty talk then don't be with someone who does. That is just a case of incompatibility.
2007-12-10 00:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this in Marriage & Divorce?
What's the situation where he's talking dirty? If you are offended by it, then say so. If he doesn't stop, then you can choose to stop conversing with him.
You didn't give enough detail as to the situation or words used, for us to determine how (in)appropriate his words might be.
2007-12-10 00:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men and woman do, it spices up the conversation,...think about when your flirting with someone on the phone,,, its fun and there isn't anything wrong with it as long as it don't get to dirty or make you feel uncomfortable.
2007-12-10 00:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like talking dirty, tell him. If he still does it, avoid him.
2007-12-10 00:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by christina30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am not a lady but sure would tell him off and avoid him if he persists.
it shows disrespect even if its his habit....
2007-12-10 00:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by constructor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what his role is to you. Is he a mate or a boyfriend? If you're not comfortable with it, tell him.
2007-12-10 00:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a pervert! Stay Away!
2007-12-10 00:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
kick em to the curb soon..
2007-12-10 00:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋