This is the story.
My girlfriend & I were together almost 5 years. She left me (claiming she didn't like the way I treated her. I wasn't perfect but no one is. She is also an untreated Bipolar). The first 2 months after she left me she said, there was no one else, that she loved me, that she wanted to know I am serious about us, etc. Then 3 weeks without much contact, she sends me pictures of her and her new partner kissing each other and laying next to each other in bed. Then continues to say she has moved on, is happy, and in love, getting married and moving this person in from the other side of the state. All of this in a month and half time. Now after all the drama, which included her calling the cops on me twice for texting her to get answers....her new partner is sending ME e-mails everyday about things (sending me things to sign up for this bootycall site, to sign up for facebook and to join it and for a game site). First question is; Could you really 'move on and be TRULY
2007-12-10 00:13:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
happy that fast??" And secondly, isn't that sick, twisted and morbid for her new partner to do that? Would you if you were the new partner? Shouldn't that be a sign that this relationship isn't as strong as what my ex makes it out to be and that she isn't 'over me' yet as she says she is??? Maybe to make me jealous?
(P.S.- All involved in this situation are all girls)
2007-12-10 00:14:24 · update #1
This situation is messed up!
Your ex has major issues, clearly, and her new girlfriend apparently does too.
I know that you want understanding, and closure, but for your own sake you need to let go. You need to make the decision to wash your hands of these people, because they are going to bog you down emotionally.
Easier said than done, I know.
Tell her new partner to stop messaging you, it is creepy. Cut contact with these people; you have no reason to prolongue your emotional turmoil.
Let go; take as much time as you need to move on, and MOVE ON; and stop worrying about if SHE has moved on. You cannot be emotionally responsible for her situation, you are not living your life. Take responsibility for your own situation, for that is worth your while.
2007-12-10 00:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by 1Up 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You keep posting this same question, or variations of it, over and over. I know I've answered you at least twice before. But I'll try again. It's over. She's not interested in you anymore. You are only driving yourself crazy trying to make sense of something which doesn't make sense. Move on with your life and forget her. Have you ever heard this saying: "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was." Think about this saying and let her go!
2007-12-10 00:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes, very possible to move on that fast and be happy.
2007-12-10 00:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by macherin77630 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you sweating this girl??? she has moved on, it would be in your best interest to do the same!
2007-12-10 01:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HOPE NEITHER OF YOU HAVE GUNS IN YOUR HOME. THE BOTH OF YOU ARE REASONS WHY COUSINS SHOULD NOT DATE. GET OVER IT
2007-12-10 00:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by sp4sheehan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋