i have a BF were 8 months.we love each other. at first we were so happy and no problem. but as time goes by, he felt cold to me. he dont txt sweet thoughts like what he did before. until i got mad at him. i started to flirt with somebody. but my heart is still in him.i dont know what to do. now, i have a GF because i feel that he dont give importance to me. my gf is very sweet and kind. she dont make me sad. she really loves me. the things that i dont feel in my BF. what will i do? will i go for my GF or to my BF?? or is it ok BOTH???please help me
2007-12-10 00:05:13 · 6 answers · asked by lets_have_fun 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
but i still want to **** my BF. hes soyummy! what will i do?
2007-12-10 00:06:28 · update #1
If you want the Truth of what will bring you happiness you need to be honest. Juggling 2 people at once is very confusing. When they find out about each other you may loose them both. i would try being with one person while doing your searching. Be completely honest with this person (if you are Bi-sexual) ect. Where you are in your human development.
If you are being honest with them both already, this is good. tell them how you feel. if they truly love you they will help you.
2007-12-10 01:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this friend once, who did shows at a local gay club, as Natasha...looked great as a drag queen, fairly oridinary as a guy. But Gary, as he was, had a bf AND a gf, and neither knew about the other...until they met one night when they both came to see 'Natasha' perform. They didn't say anything...but they got together, and totally trashed Gary's home...tore everything to shreds, destroyed furniture, clothes, books...and costumes and cosmetics. Everything. Even what was in the refridgerator and kitchen cupboards...and both never spoke to him again. After a period of time, gary/Natasha saw the himour in the entire situation...bit it taught him not to cheat OR play people off against each other.
2007-12-10 23:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by zedekiah77 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All relationships have ups and downs!! I do not understand the getting a girlfriend while still wanting your boyfriend, but to each his own. If you want to be with your BF, you have to work at it, it is a 2 way street and you need to find out what makes the relationship work. Not getting a GF instead!!
2007-12-10 00:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by selms01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want to be with your bf, but are using the gf to make him jealous. It is not fair to her, and you are kidding yourself about the guy because he is moving on and leaving you.
2007-12-10 00:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are cheating then? That is not good. I would say go with your BF if you love him more.
2007-12-10 00:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your bf so cute get me a date with him i a gay
2007-12-10 00:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Shree V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋