2007-12-09 23:42:02 · 13 answers · asked by Ashwani B 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Verbal abusing is a serious thing because its not really "verbal abusing" but mental abuse
I advice that you give such people a dose of thier own medicine so they do not attain a sense of power on you and abuse even more.Also having retaliated the feeling of being abused , humiliated and tormented will not be so strong upon you.So for your own mental health I think its good that you dont keep quiet atleast when attacked. First you can tell the abuser in as loud a voice as his that he minds his tongue .After that if he continues then you do the same with him.
2007-12-10 01:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Aradhana 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Its always better to think that what matters most is what you think about yourself. You have to be strong and you should think only about your future goals. Try to get away from them. If you only focus about your future well-being, you will realize that the verbal abusers will be nowhere at your level, for what you have accomplished.
2007-12-09 23:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him.Bullys are themselves scared within and bully to satisfy themselves.If any friend is abused to and tell them this simple truth.Always act like to have pity on him for being a coward and he will be shocked and stop
2007-12-10 00:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Utsav S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them a taste of their own medicine. Verbally abuse them back.
2007-12-10 00:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its continuously extra suitable to assume that what subjects lots is what you assume approximately your self. think approximately to be useful and likewise you will ought to assume least complicated approximately your long term objectives. attempt to interrupt out from them. in case you least complicated interest approximately your long term everyday healthiness, you would be conscious that the verbal abusers would be nowhere at your point, for what you have gotten achieved.
2016-10-01 07:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live with one, get out; they never change except for the worse; if you work with one, get a diffferent job, as they are toxic over time and you can literally get physically ill from the animosity.
2007-12-10 00:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from them as soon as possible, dont think of trying to change someone cause they have to see it as a problem on their own. Try to flee quick.
2007-12-09 23:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Delightful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that ''the language is definitely uncalled for '' in a very serious manner or else say ''better mind ur language when u r talkin to me, i am no garbage can to listen to ur crap''
2007-12-10 00:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grit your teeth silently and ignore them.
2007-12-09 23:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by kumarcl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assess the reason. If he/she is right then correct yourself. If he/she is wrong ignore it.
2007-12-10 00:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by rjv.lchn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋