I m a boy studying in an non co ed-institution,there are no girls in our college because of this there is no interaction with opposite sex, and when i meet any of my female friends i m not able to talk with them. i feel nervous to talk to them.i want to talk to them but now i dont that much dareing to talk.because of this there is a mis understanding among us.I dont know why is this happening...please help me out........
2007-12-09 23:38:09 · 10 answers · asked by shekhar r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't worry...this happens...you will come out of it soon....it's just like you started crawling as as child befor you started walking.
Try to start a conversation with small talks...like ...just greeting when you meet....practise this first.....after couple of days once you are easy with greeting...then take your conversation little further....how was your weekend...what you did over the weekend.....may be about a popular TV serial...
Soon you will feel comfortable talking to them.
All the best!!
2007-12-09 23:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by dipta_j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest thing to do is simple ask them about themselves. "Hi, how are you?" is a good start. Then you could follow it up with "What have you been doing lately?" to catch up with events. They may ask you the same, and you can tell them a bit about your school, and how weird it is not having girls around. This is always something for people to think about, and talk about.
2007-12-09 23:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging around the same girl(s) for a regularly. If you stay around the same ones you will become more comfortable with it, and it will be easier to meet more.
If she (they) seems to think you're acting a little strange, just explain honestly and she will most likely understand.
2007-12-09 23:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is definitely a classmate of yours who can easily talked to you. ask him/her how come people minsunderstood you from their point of view.
may i ask u something personal, sorry to offend but are you the only male indian in the class? sometimes anti-racial may be due to the reason and this cause them to avoid you more rather when there is a misunderstanding. do keep yourself low in profile, start being friendly.
lastly, are u intending to study or know ladies? just concentrate more on your studies ok
2007-12-09 23:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with the girls you meet and tell them you nervous and you dont talk to girls offten because of were you go to school
2007-12-09 23:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by dollcrew44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can! see ur talkin to me.. find a ladyboy type and start at it then ask her what girls really want to talk aboout then u can start of into a real girly girl..
2007-12-09 23:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by =-genny-= 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try?it may be a good start 4 you.start by looking in the eye and flash that smile!!!!
2007-12-09 23:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by junelle_ecko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , just talk to them as if like they are guys. If one of them becomes your crush, just talk to her regularly. Dont be shy to talk to them. Always imagine that they are just regular people.
Good Luck!
Dont be shy! =)
2007-12-09 23:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by Arvee V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok not to talk to girls cos ur shy but first have to do xtend ur smile then wat u feel inside will be gone,then u will see to ur self that ur talking to tham with out noticing try to smile alwys.the best way to a woman's heart is warm smile...
2007-12-10 00:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by honeycreeper07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to a ladyboy for a Start......
2007-12-09 23:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by Joe S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋