Im in a same sex relationship,and have been for many years now (4). when i met my partner she was very inscure,although she isn't as bad now,it still raises it's ugly head. i have a ex who ive know for about 8 years now,we was only together a month or two,but became very good mates and that was it.My ex is married now,and we bothed moved on,but i still keep in touch with her daughter..My current partner hates this and recently made me delete the daughters number off my mobile..Im really confused though because my partner is in touch with her ex husband,she rings him twice a week, and he has also been to are house to stay for a few days while i was away..Altough i know she would never sleep with a man again he slept in are bedroom on the floor instead of the front room,i was away at the time,and only found out when i came back...She said it shouldn't bother me because she's gay,but i had to stop talking to my ex's daughter.It seems that it's one rule for me and one for her,wat do i do?
2007-12-09 23:09:21 · 7 answers · asked by half pint 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My mates daughter is 13 years old
2007-12-09 23:14:52 · update #1
She's trying to control you, I suggest you both go in for counseling.
2007-12-09 23:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its more appropriate for you to be in touch with a child you had spent a lot of time with, than for her to keep talking to a man she had broken up with.
I would sit down and tell her exactly what you told us, pretty much. Hopefully she will listen and you can work something out.
Good luck!
2007-12-12 11:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by slacey61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your friends Daughter? this could be the ans. to your question. Jealousy will kill any relationship. put your foot down but in a way to aleviate any fears for your partner..
2007-12-10 07:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her we are a couple, we have different jobs different looks etc and we also have different friends, she's trying to control you, your life and who you can or can't see, use the same tactics on her tell her to erase his number from her phone tell her he's not to come to your house again and she's not to see him etc. you'l soon get an answer from her and you will know where you stand.
2007-12-10 07:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that!! tell her not 2 make certain rules for you and her ta do the complete opposite!! u gota let er know u were the trousers in the house!! hahaha!! but yeh say dat to her!!! goooooooooooooood luck!!
2007-12-10 07:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she expects you to trust her with her ex husband then she should trust you with your ex's daughter.
2007-12-10 07:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check your girlfriend out .go for fresh relationship
2007-12-10 07:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Shree V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋