The girl I got pregnant is an ex-girlfriend from my junior year of high school. She stalked me and everything (long story). My mom had a court case against her for harassment, and now my mom and my sister have restraining orders against her. My ex that's pregnant is due in August of '08. I'm 18 and so is she. My mom and sister's restraining orders expire around like September or something like that. I'm in a college a little over an hour from my family and ex that's pregnant. My ex will be graduating from high school in May '08. She has told her family, but I'm having problems with my family currently. My parents are authoritarian, so that doesn't help at all. I would appreciate all the help I can get. Thank you!
2007-12-09 21:00:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And yes, she is going to keep the baby, and I will be a part of its life. I'm not going to just run away. Thank you assholes that have already decided for me and tell me that I shouldn't run out on my child. I made the decision to never run out of my child's life before any of this sh!t happened. But thanks, I really appreciate you all that assumed I'm a selfish litte b!*ch. But seriously, thank you to those of you who actually put down a real answer. I really do appreciate that.
2007-12-10 10:51:00 · update #1
Make sure that the both of you consider all of your options, adoption, abortion, keeping the baby etc. You are an adult now so you have to act like one.
If she plans on keeping the baby, you need to let your family know. It won't be easy but you'll feel better once you get this off your chest. Just go home one day and tell you family that you have to discuss something with them and just tell them. There is no easy way to do it. They will be hurt because they love you and they want you to do things the right way and to have an easy life. But that's ok. You're human, and you will make mistakes. No matter how mad they get, they will still love you because you are their child. What's done is done. Be a man and whatever you do, don't turn your back on your child.
2007-12-10 02:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by MzGil 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You have to face the music and the decisions you made! (I hope the restraining order wasn't for YOU.) You've got to sit down with them and tell them. There most likely will be some heat and "anger" -- you've got to face this and the longer you wait, the worse it's going to get, but you have some serious family ties that need to be mended.
I hope you act responsibly because you're going to be a father soon (and THIS is nothing compared to fatherhood).
2007-12-09 21:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
it must have been serious if she was stalking you. i would go and seek the advise of an attorney. explain everything to them and they can give you the best advise on what to do next. based on that ,then i would tell your parents, they probably won't be happy, but i am sure the would like to have a grandchild. just give them time to accept what has happened.and good luck with the baby!
2007-12-12 03:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by wikkedmomma33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. your the guy and shes the one who will make most of the decision because she's the one whos pregnant. just go right out and tell your parents. they'll be mad but at least it will be over with. good luck
2007-12-11 09:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by hello_beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got a girl pregnant, good on u.
its ur baby as well, ur a father now u have to fight for ur family, tell ur parents straight to the point the truth that u made her pregnant and therefore ur ganna be a father and take charge.
what r u ganna do? abondon her? and ur kid?
i think ur air-head, u didnt mention asking how ur ganna deal with this, this disaster and, that u luv her or watever ur just afraid of how to say this to ur parents..pathetic
2007-12-09 21:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
tell your parents she aint no devil because devil makes you sad and unhappy but it seems you're excited and happy with your ex gf...she's an angel...
2007-12-11 12:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have abortion done if at all your family finds her unacceptable to save her from the idignition of becoming a MOTHER before marriage.
2007-12-10 01:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋