She is okay with the friends thing, keep communication but doesn't want to meet up with me right now, we just broke up one week ago.
She wants be friends, start from the beginning, and takes things slow.. i guess she wants space, but the sign tells me that she doesn't want to do anything with me anymore.
how can i get her back?
what should i do?
is this the end?
2007-12-09 19:40:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she was the dumper and i was the dumpee.
2007-12-09 19:44:45 · update #1
lick and drool on her face and say.... '"bebe i wand u co badzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz"
2007-12-09 19:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by b z 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she was the dumper, there was some reason she dumped you. Do you really want someone back that hurt you like that? There are some good woman out there that will love and appreciate you, please move on and find that person. When she tells you she wants space, she is telling you she has someone else. Open your eyes, I know you see it. NO_ONE moves on unless they are moving toward something they think is better. . .
2007-12-09 22:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get her back. No means NO.
Accept being just her friend or else you can push her all the way from her.
I think this is the end. At least for now. You never know. That is why, you need to give her the space she ask for.
2007-12-09 19:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter who dumped who, nor the reason... What really matters is that it did not work one first time, and there is no reason at all why it should work a second or a third. There are just too many beautiful chicks outside like to try and stick to a failed one.
2007-12-09 20:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Yabran Tariga 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stay friend with her ( this is what i didn't do with my ex well some one else get him) I hope you figured out what caused the break up since you kept communication ( didn't have the chance to talk to him to see what went wrong and didn't want to communicate with me ) of course try to change and learn from our mistakes. never blame her if she did something that hurt you let go (for now) don't look desperate
don't get a girl friend yet but hang out with some girls. if she's very jalous don't make her too jalous ( again for now but you might consider that later) time to time meeet her and sho her how you improved without talking about directly.
finally hope for the best
go to wikihow, they 've got nice tips
good luck
2007-12-09 19:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you are going to have to respect her wishes, and either take it slow, or simply move on with life as if you are apart forever.
You will both need to take time to readjust to life and grieve your losses.. meanwhile, keep occupied, spend time with family and friends... be as productive as possible... you can even take a class or join the gym... karate is a very disciplined class, just as a suggestion.
take care
2007-12-09 19:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u should feel happy as **** that she wants to start over... my girl jus broke up wit me like a month n a half ago n i've been wantin to start over wit her but she jus didnt want to, n sometimes she told me she's thinkin bout it n many times she told me she's gonna get back wit methen today she tells me that she jus wants to be friends nothin more, ever... but enuff bout me, i jus want u to kno that i kno where ur commin from... if she says she wants to start over then start over, find out things u didnt kno bout her, treat her how u treated her wen u first met her but better... always compliment her n do thing wit her u kno she likes... the only way u can get her back is to make her want u back... make urself better in her eyes, w/e happened to make u 2 break up, change.... it doesnt have to be the end unless u make it, but dont be to forcefull or u'll jus drive her away
2007-12-09 19:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by babyakdre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, find new friends and possibly a new girl so that she can see you have a life and can socialize with others.
In time, she'll be lonely at night and give you a ring for that booty call.
2007-12-09 19:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by ~Marcus~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I can give to you is don't seem to keen to get her back go out have fun (don't go with other women) and make sure her friends find out about it she'll soon see how fun and interesting you still are.. This is your only chance if you crowd her she will resent you.
2007-12-09 19:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Neishi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the end of the road dude. Keep moving forward..it hurts like hell..but you will survive! Time will heal you. Don't keep holding on to someone who doesn't feel the same way you do.
2007-12-09 19:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by frangipani2124 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did you break up? Did she express why she wanted to take things slow?
2007-12-09 19:43:36 · answer #11 · answered by forestbythesea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋