I lost my virginity last week to my boyfriend who I love and it did hurt. I have had sex with him three times and every time it really hurts when he first enters me and then the pain goes away after a few seconds and then it's fine. Is it just because my body is new to this and will the initial pain go away with time? I don't think I have a medical condition because I don't have any pain when we are having sex, only right when he enters me. Any input would be great! Thanks!
2007-12-09 19:32:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It is normal. You might want to try some lubrication for now. It will get better. Make sure you relax. Sometimes when you expect pain you tighten up to prepare for it.
2007-12-09 20:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to hurt the first 8-12 times. It's also normal to hurt if you're not lubricated enough when he enters you.
But it will hurt far worse when he dumps you now that he's gotten what he wants.
2007-12-10 03:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal and the pain will go with time. You must do sufficiently long foreplay and also use lube to minimize the pain during initial few penetrations.
2007-12-10 04:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain wil go away. Make sure that you are lubricated enough at the opening, that should help ease the pain.
2007-12-10 03:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry its fine and normal it will bet better shortly just keep the for play a little bit more and make sure you are ready before starting and try to relax and not think about it the more stressed you are the worse it will be
2007-12-10 03:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you're relaxed and ready. You can buy lubrication to use and that would be helpful. Make sure it is water based and you can use it safely with condoms. Make sure not to use something like vaseline that will cause condoms to break..
2007-12-10 03:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by DTott 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal..i've experienced it..
but now the pain seems away..n i'm enjoying my sex life..
but lubricant always helps..good luck!
2007-12-10 03:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Niev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal, it's always like that the first few times ;)
2007-12-10 04:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by droplette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal
2007-12-10 03:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I have an input- his input is too fast and there's no lube.
2007-12-10 03:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋