I'm a bisexual teen guy thats a Christian, but almost everyday I'm so afraid, because in the bible it says "a man that lye with another man, should be put to death (hell)", and Jesus is coming back, we don't know the day or the hour. Hes coming back like a thief at night (lease expected). I spend more time worrying about judgment day, and where would we b in the future...than enjoying my life. I'm not out all the way to people, because people always say that I'm a waste of male. I should let a beautiful girl have me, than to let another funky male have me. Evey boy at my school I like is all straight guys. Its only two gay guys in the whole school, which is not my type in a relationship (feminine). Every day at school all I ever see is guys and girls French kissing in public, and that upsets me, because all the boys don't have love for the gay guy, just girls! How can I overcome all of this stuff!? Am I a waste of man, because of me giving it to another man, instead of a beautiful girl
2007-12-09 16:24:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Once you realize that you are gay because that is how God made you to be, you will stop putting yourself down.
The bible doesn't say what you are claiming that is says. Try reading the words of Jesus in Matthew chapters 5 & 22. Leave Leviticus to the Levites, it was intended only for them.
2007-12-09 16:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by sudonym x 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your self and be true to yourself. One thing is for sure, high school is not much like the "real world". Are you a waste of a man? Does it seem to you that that is true? It will always be true that there are a lot more guys who are attracted to beautiful girls than guys who are attracted to other guys. That's just statistics. And you've already figured out that just because another man likes guys, doesn't mean that you and he would be a good match. I'm pretty sure that unless your school has fewer than about 50 students that there are more gay guys than you are aware of. Doesn't your school have rules about physical displays of affection? No one should be "french kissing in public"
But to get back to the important stuff: listen to yourself and pay attention to what you believe. You would not be the first gay man to leave a church that rejected him. There are more enlightened and tolerant churches. Possibly you should consider finding one of them.
You are not an evil person because you are gay. In the current culture of this country it does give you some extra difficulties. When you are an adult you will have more control over where you live, work, and worship and you can choose to live around people who appreciate you for who you really are instead of people who reject you because of a difference over which you have no control. I wish you the best in finding your way.
2007-12-09 16:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like i have said to people before-there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi. One of my best friends, a guy i call my "brother", is full-blown gay, and him AND his boyfriend are pretty awesome people. As for the bible, i am christian as well, but it is my belief that the bible may have been altered slightly. Do not take the bible seriously word for word, because it is so old that it IS possible it is altered. As for being a waste of "male", thats bullshit. You have more "male" in you and you proved it by asking this where you could be insulted. I hope you find this helpfull. If you wanna talk some more message me, SN is snoflake9002
2007-12-09 16:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by David Blizzard 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe who you love or are attracted to determines what happens to you in the affterlife because I don't believe love can be a bad thing no matter who it is directed at.
I think faking a relationship with a beautiful girl just because that is what the norm is where you live is more worthy of being sent to hell than genuinely loving someone of the same sex.
However, ultimately you have find it in yourself what you think is right. My advice to you would be that before you do anything make sure you are certain that you are satified with your choices because these are the decisions that can haunt you for the rest of your life.
2007-12-09 16:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a waste of a male. It may say in the bible that it is wrong for a man to lay with a man, but it also says that god is a forgiving god. All sins will be forgiven if you ask for them to be! There is nothing wrong with it, because you didnt choose to be bisexual! :) If god didnt want you to be gay, then he wouldnt have ever made you that way! You know what, to be honest with you, man interpreted the ancient bible in the way he wanted to. There were many changes made to it, and there are so many books that were left out! You have to get close to god to know what to do, because the bible wont always be right. He will always let you know what to do.
2007-12-09 16:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Toni 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG! Ok- first off, you love God and you you're gay. Don't beat yourself up! You really can't help that you're gay. God is not going to strike you down. When you go to college (and you should), try to find some gay communities on campus that can direct you to a gay-friendly church congregation. There are tons of HORRIBLE things straight people do and people don't judge them any less. I know it's hard seeing all the cute guys with girls. Where I went to college, all the HOT guys were GAY. For me- a straight girl- that STUNK!
the worst thing you could do is marry a straight girl b/c you think you should- how horrible would that be for her?
2007-12-09 16:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by jt_eradicator 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude your not a waste. You are here to love whoever you want to love. As you get older you will find new ways to meet more gay/bi-sexual people. There are more likely, than not, more gay/bi-sexual people in your school, but it is not so accepted, so people hide "in the closet" so to speak. God loves everyone. He is the only one who will judge you. And as long as you accept Jesus Christ as your savior you will go to Heaven with the rest of the 'sinners' that have been forgiven. The Bible isn't there for you to live your life in fear. That is not what God wants. Be true to yourself.
2007-12-09 16:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Bret N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you certain that you are gay or are you just confused.Did
something happen in your childhood to make you sexually confused.I f you might just be confused about it then you need counseling.If you were born gay then probably there is nothing you can do to change.the way you were born.It is very confusing to a straight person like myself,we have a hard time understanding it.I don't think your a waste of man but if you are
worried every day about what it says in the Bible and judgement day.I think some counseling might help.
2007-12-09 16:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by j.p. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe you are with the Holy Spirit, because when you fear God it can only be recognized through Him.
I don't know how to reply without sounding offensive to the believers, because I'm Christian.
I believe that being gay is not a sin because people don't choose to be gay.
Jesus came to us to show us unconditional love and compassion towards one another and not to judge because that is the Lords job.
Live your life with peace in your heart as well with the Lord.
Remember that fornication is a sin.
GOD BLESS! AMEN! SHALOM!
2007-12-09 16:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
http://www.breakawaymag.com/HeyMike/A000000264.cfm
go to this link and read the short article, it might help
http://www.livehope.org/modules.php?op=modload&name=News&file=article&sid=134
here's another link. check it out too. its a website all about homosexuality and stuff like that.
also if you think gay life is ok then think about this. if gay life is ok, then why didn't God create 2 guys "in the beginning" instead of a man and woman (Adam and Eve)? think about it. sorry, but its not ok
2007-12-09 16:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋