i never loved or liked my ex when i was with him..i just valued his body...but we ended it, and towards the end i noticed him withdrawing from me because i threw myself at him constantly at the wrong times and there was someone else also...but he didnt seem getting with me in first place while being with this other person....but it was long distance she lived in some boring town somewhere..but anyway..i dont exactly want to go back to him..i just want him sexually again..ive been very stressed lately and ive been thinking about him and hes just the type of thing i need to unwind..so would it be wise just to use him for hooking up? hes in another city..(manhatten im in brooklyn) so i dont have to see him at school or anythingit can be really discrete too..its perfect..but i just dont know if i want to head back to that path but at the same time...i want him sooo bad not for love or anything like that but for hooking up..is this healthy or even wise lol?
2007-12-09 15:54:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
lol..ive tried other guys..but i didnt feel the same lol! it felt worthless...like im wasting my time..i guess because with him he was easy to control i just wanted to rough him up in every physical way possible lol!
2007-12-09 16:05:00 · update #1
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2007-12-09 20:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by AJ Chase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, its not really healthy or wise. I would have to say Fight the Urge. It could backfire, and you or him may end up emotionally attached. Hold off and try to find a good guy that you do like (much better afterwards, lol)
On another note, if you do decide to go back to him be prepared for a little drama/gossip cause that usually happens with friends with benefits.
2007-12-10 00:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Ms Puff - it is just not healthy. Using him just for sex now would only complicate matters. If it sinot real love, then forget it.
Try to overcome ur past love affair. U have abused him enough & he too hasn't been 100 % loval to u. C if u cn explore the horizons & come up with new friends.
Above all, donot live for sex alone. there r many other better things in life. Like true Love, for instance.
2007-12-10 00:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. Yeah- I KNOW that'd be hard. But don't you want something BETTER than what you got from him before?? Let him go- & look for someone to really LOVE. Wasting your time- means you're wasting your Life...
2007-12-10 00:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Move on with your life. You don't even love him. If all you want is sex, I'm sure there's plenty of guys who'll give it to you (and failing that, some can be had for a price).
2007-12-10 00:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes youshud i miss my ex girlfriend so much now.
2007-12-10 00:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋