He moved in with me and things just kind of got carried away. I never intended for this to be a serious relationship. He is very manipulative and he lies to me all of the time. I feel like he is taking advantage of me because he doesn't pay rent, uses my car and all of my things, comes and goes as he pleases, comes home drunk and under the influence of other things probably. Ant to top it all off I believe he has a warrant out for his arrest for a DUI that he never went to court for. I hope to not have to just call the police and end things that way because it seems a little extreme to me. Any suggestions?
2007-12-09 13:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by Kate94582 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
If you've let it get as bad as described, you deserve the loser.
2007-12-09 13:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to check the laws in your state. In most states, if you allow someone to move in with you and they start using your address (sometimes it has to be on a drivers license or other government ID) you must go through a formal eviction process, and as such putting his things outside and locking him out would be illegal on YOUR part.
Definetly do some research on this by contacting your local police or sheriffs department. Also, take this as a learning experience and don't let just anyone move in with you.
2007-12-09 22:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Crazyjester9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just sit him down and say that it's not working for you anymore. Which is the truth. So come out with it. Tell him to find another place to live. You just want your freedom again and that's that. Tell him you're not into the couple thing anymore. If after being honest with him about your feelings, and he continues to disregard your request, then take action. You would have given him his chance to exit honorably. There's nothing else that can be done! Good luck!
2007-12-09 22:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack up all of his stuff, and set it outside the door.
If he makes a scene, call the cops. He'll def go to jail because of his warrant. :) And disturbing the peace.
Have a friend over if you are scared in anyways. Just lock all the doors, and dont let him borrow your car. (Meaning, if he is coming home in your car... he still has the keys and will take off in it)
2007-12-09 21:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Skyleigh's Mom :)™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, chock this one up to experience on your end, dear. You knew it wasn't serious and yet you felt it OK to move in with him. Get the want ads and find a room for rent somewhere and get your stuff and move out NOW. You don't want to be wrapped up in this guy. get out now while you can.
If you want to be moral about it, you are doing the community a favor by having the cops call the warrant and bring him in. perfect time for you to get out.
2007-12-09 21:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by jjudijo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee, are you sure you're not living with my ex-boyfriend?
I left him one day. When he wasn't home, I got a moving truck and got someone to help me move my furniture and moved out of town. I never regretted it, and never looked back.
2007-12-09 21:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i like the second answer, throw all him stuff out! lol tell him he's gotta straighten out his life if he wants to be a part of yours. and then if he gets violent or whatever, call the cops
2007-12-09 22:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by wikkedstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are in love with George W. Bush
2007-12-09 21:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
counselling....sorry, bad joke...just tell him your through on a night (or day) he is sober unless he shapes up or something
2007-12-09 22:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋