in other words, to avoid cheating, why don't men just marry someone who they would normally cheat with whether they be prettier or skinnier or more sexual than their wife (if that makes sense). that way they won't go looking for that after they marry.
2007-12-09 10:58:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i'm not married; i was just saying. lol
2007-12-09 11:13:59 · update #1
Because that type of man cant live with that kind of woman.
2007-12-09 11:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by sarell 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 06:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe men cheat because they want that type of person in their lives. I think most men cheat because of who they
are within......it doesn't matter who they are married to.....she
could be the most beautiful, kindest, sweetest, smartest, wealthiest woman in the world....and if a man is prone to cheat,
he is going to cheat.
Some men, just like some women, are prone to cheating.
They find it difficult to be faithful to just one person.
In my lifetime, I have seen some very sad cases of cheating....
and the person who had been cheated on had not asked for
the pain and the problems....it was just the way the husband
was himself or how the wife was (women can be just as bad or worse than some cheating men).
So I am hoping that you are not feeling that for some reason you have been cheated on because you are not as pretty, as thin, as sexual as someone else.
If you've been cheated on, it is because you married a man
who is a cheater.
There are good men out there, just as there are good women out there.....those who want a monogamous marriage and
who will honor their marriage vows.
I hope you have not been hurt in this way.
Doris
2007-12-09 11:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by Doris L 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not that simple. Most people marry assuming they're getting the whole package deal but situation changes and a person can change and isn't who you fell in love with. Cheating isn't just abount looks, are you serious--I had a friend of mine who cheated with a butt ugly woman his wife was beautiful. It's about sex not looks and if the girl or guy isn't giving what the partner needs, the partner naturally will go where they're wanted. It's human nature. You don't eat out when your fridge is full stock, get the picture?!
2007-12-09 11:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For the same reason that women don't marry the type of men that they end up cheating with....but sureiously who knows why anybody does anything?! It is not because they are men, or because we are women, it is because people are people and everyone makes individual choices, and sometimes they are bad choices.
Make the decisions that are right for you and just don't worry about the decisions other people make.
2007-12-09 12:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I think the reason is because a lot of men are not sure ofwhat they want. To be able to be fullfilled in a relationship, you need to be complete first. You have to know yourself. And many times that is not the case. There are no stereotypes for a cheating person. All women that cheat don't look like a hooker. There's serious people that have been involved in this type of scenario. So, your question raises other issues. People are not fullfilled and thinking that other people can do that for them they hop around destroying lives, homes and themselves. Sad,,really.
2007-12-09 11:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because it's not about the type of person they cheat on (or with), it's about being MARRIED. Being married is the problem in their minds, the being tied down, the restraint that cheaters imagine is keeping them from the greener grass on the other side.
If cheaters divorce their spouse and marry the one they were cheating with, guess what. They almost always end up cheating on that wife too!
2007-12-09 11:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must understand that most men live on fantasies. When they learn that life is not the picture perfect thing they expect they have problems dealing with it. The success of women in catching a man is based on their ability to keep the man amused. That is why most women pretend to be modest when there may well be a hot cookie under the sham. Men do not cheat to be mean, they cheat to find out what they have been missing.
2007-12-09 11:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by hardnose 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
because people cheat in a moment of weakness, or to prove something to themselves or their spouse. for example that they are still desirable to other people. I cheated once, i wasn't married or anything, the guy never found out, but i felt bad about, more regret really, b/c the guy i cheated with, although i liked him at first, was a total downgrade. So now, i most certainly wont cheat, and if for some unknown reason i do, it will be with someone amazingly hot. But for the most part people who cheat are dumb, and i include myself in that.
2007-12-09 11:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by *D* 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Because polygamy is outlawed in the states. This is a reason polygamy is allowed in my religion (Islam). I am the second wife to my husband but I'm American and he doesn't have a marriage certificate with his first wife who is Moroccan because his Government does not recognize marriages from Saudi men to foreign women unless they are from USA or UK. My husband married me for reasons that I'm not saying but it wasn't because he wanted to cheat on his wife with me.
2007-12-09 11:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by wolfkarew 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is one of the best questions I have heard. I wonder the same thing. All I can say is that if a man has a problem committing to one partner he should never get married. The same goes for his partner as well. Marriage is all about commitment to one person.
2007-12-09 11:13:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋