2007-12-09 10:43:08 · 5 answers · asked by DANA C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My hubby has high blood pressure so we experience the same thing. Important thing is to stay involved with the sexual experience. If you have an understanding mate that really loves you, then this can be a fun time that gives your relationship a true boost. Time to shop for wonderful toys together. You should always always always be involved during the pleasuring experience and learn to be stimulated from her stimulation. This will keep your coitus mutual. Once you start learning to have sex without your mate, you can get used to it, and in effect, venture out. Don't be so close-minded and allow this to happen. Look at it as another stage of development of your sex life. REMEMBER, WHAT YOU CANT GET IN THE HIP, YOU MUST GET IN THE LIP!!! (if you dont get it, feel free to email me). Usually only needy people resort to deviant behavior. Execute due diligence to unsure this does not happen and this will be just another hurdle successfully cleared by the two of you~!!!!
Good luck!!!!
2007-12-09 10:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by quienbee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know from friends who are diabetic, that they can take some of the meds out there for E.D. like Viagra, or Cialas.
But sex alone is NOT what keeps a relationship going. But talk with your Dr. about it.
2007-12-09 18:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to a former diabetic, that has had ED problems. He had lap band surgery which is how he overcame diabetes. He still has problems though at times. Work on helping her feel that it isn't her fault. That you still desire her. I know even though he was feeling the frustration about himself he would subconsciously take it out on me. Also make sure her needs are being met. If you are taking medication to help don't let it put more pressure on you. Otherwise she will fee used.
Keep her emotional needs met and you will be surprised what happens.
What happens sometimes is that if you are having problems you don't want to do anything that might lead to sex, so all aspects of that part of your relationship are ignored. That leaves both of you feeling like your relationship is only half there. It makes her feel rejected when that is done. Especially if she has initiated. Then she tends to build walls and you both drift apart. I know.
2007-12-09 19:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by okie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your family doctor because e.d. can cause other problems if you don't treat it. from experience with my spouse the doctor gave him a prescription for viagar and it works great!!!!
2007-12-09 19:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by amandairwin06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby has that issue-- he needs to see the doctor for the proper meds! it works!
2007-12-09 18:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋