my mom is getting tired of me cause I like this guy and he likes me and she dous not approve????????????

Question

my nom is getting tired of me cause Iike this guy and he likes me and he is getting tired of me talking to him all the time and she says that I am too young to date and she won't leave me alone about it and my friend leonna dous not approve of it either and I ask her why cause she says she hates him and she won't tell me the real reason her only reason is that hes annoying but hes not hes awesome any suggestions to get them both to agree with me????

I am also 13

Answer 1

do what you thinks best,forget what others think.

Answer 2

ok, when the people who love you and care about you tell you they don't approve, you listen. I always have trouble with this, because I think I'm the only one who would know, when you really should trust your friends and parents. You probably are too young to date, if you start dating too soon and it works out, then you guys become closer than close and most who start dating seriously at a young age will become pregnant and bring another life into this world irresponsibly and your life won't ever be the same again, you may think, it won't ever happen, but when the hormones are coursing through your body and you're in the situation where no one's there but you and him you won't be able to control your mind set. Listen to your friend and mom, lay off of him a bit, don't talk to him so much. You can still be his friend, but don't always obsess over him, it's being clingy and annoying, to those around you and eventually it will get to the guy who likes you. Good luck :)

Answer 3

It is interesting that you only added your age, 13, as an additional comment. And how old is this boy?
At 13, you need to respect your mother's opinion. I would also
like to add that perhaps there is a good reason your friend does
not find this boy as "awesome" as you do.
You are young and there are so many other things for you to be putting your energy and interest in at this point in your life. If I
were your mother, I would not want you to be spending a good deal of your time talking with a boy, either.

I have a 13 year old grandson whose life is busy with math,
legos, playing the trumpet in his school's marching band....
and getting excellent grades.

It would be so good for you to find things you are interested
in and can learn to excel in.

There is time for boys when you are older, more mature,
wiser, and well educated. Then you will attract a boy with
interests similar to your own and you will have more of a
chance of developing a lasting relationship.

Sad to say, teen girls are usually looking for love and the
boys are looking for sex---it's a hormonal thing. Wise
mothers teach their children about this to protect them from
poor decision making which can lead to STD's and early
pregnancy, neither of which is helpful to a young girl's vision
for her life.

I wish you well and hope you will give more thought to your
mother's wishes for you. There is a good reason both your
mother and your friend think that this boy is not good news
for you, dear.

All the best,
Doris

Answer 4

By the way you're spelling you're not so smart, so I'm not going to approve either :]

Either way you seem too young and there'll be more kiddos to enjoy. I'm in High Skool and I know it's not like he's going to make your life any better.

Answer 5

well. how does he act, is he , like the 'bad boy' type ?lol. idk maybe you should respect your moms dision.

my mom didnt aprrove of this boy but i went behind her back adn i ended up getting in trouble with the cops because of him so you might wanna think twice..

and if you mom says your too young to date prove to her you are responsible enough to handle it.


and talk to your friend about it.
say to her that what if she really liked her boyfriend alot and you wanted her to dump him ?

good luck

Answer 6

sit them both down individually by themselves and talk to them.

Answer 7

she might be right