what does that mean??
more details: he has been w/ her for a couple years they have a baby together, he says he will never marry (again, cause the 1st time was so bad) he's trying to have another baby, so his current child will have a sibling, (his reasoning)
yet, he wants to start something w/ me
cause we have such a strong chemistry, high attraction, if we did something, it would release the tension between us etc
(these are his words)
it's driving me nuts (in a good way, cause i like the attention)
BUT he's in a relationship, i'm married....and don't want to cheat on my hubby, who is absolutely wonderful
what about just a kiss?? i know that would be cheating...but what if that's all it took... to release the tension between this guy and me? i don't even want to think about it... but i just want to get opinions no judgements, cause we haven't DONE anything but it's driving us both insane i'm only scared of it leading to more then just a kiss. i work w/ him tomorrow.
help plz
2007-12-09 10:00:25 · 9 answers · asked by this_sucks2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You think you need some new excitement and he makes you feel attractive and good about yourself. I don't think a little flirting hurts but only flirting. No kissing, no nothing else. If he is trying to have another child why would he want to do anything with another woman-why would you consider it if your hubby is absolutely wonderful (to release tension-give me a break). Don't do it. You would probably live to regret it.
2007-12-09 10:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to even entertain the idea of doing ANYTHING with this user, then your husband deserves better.
But considering that six months ago you were ready to walk out on your marriage, and you've only known this new guy for a couple of weeks and you're contemplating doing something with him that you KNOW is wrong, it sounds like your husband deserves better, anyway.
2007-12-09 10:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't kiss him, stay away from him. yes it is cheating. You are willing to risk a good marriage for a couple of minutes of pleasure? All it takes is a kiss. Run the other way, I promise this will not turn out good for either of you. Especially you, whos married.
2007-12-09 10:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by lwomar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes a kiss is considered cheating! If he's trying to have another child with his girlfriend then he's only looking for sex from you. Is that truly worth ruining your marriage over??
2007-12-09 10:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth throwing away a marriage over. Avoid him, at all costs. He sounds like a real ***.
2007-12-09 10:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're married, remember your vows?
Anyhoo, this guys trying to smooth talk you, and he's a cad and if you fall into the sack with him, so are you.
So on that note please remember your spouse and his girlfriend and how devastated they would be if they found out.
2007-12-09 10:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Donnertagskind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need serious therapy..
I can't BELIEVE that you would stoop to this guy who is a player.. and whose reasoning for having another child is so irrational!
He's a fruitcake.
2007-12-09 10:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S what your fretting over????? Good God Almighty...
2007-12-09 10:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need Jesus--and fast!!
2007-12-09 10:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋