based on experience:
what are some things that your partner has said that make you suspect or realize that they are cheating on you?
2007-12-09 09:15:07 · 19 answers · asked by curious question 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when he got a text on his mobile or it rang , he would pick it up so fast , then go outside and talk or reply to text, he didn't let the phone out of his sight and if i tried to look at it he would flip out .
he started going to the gym and buying new clothes / aftershaves ( we were married a long time and believe me , this was a rare occurance lol )
He no longer wanted sex anymore ( when usually he would want it everyday )
He became very secretive about everything , and if i asked him a simple question like : how was your day babe ?" , he would reply with " its none of your bussiness " when he never said that stuff before.
He also turned very angry - possibly out of guilt , and started being mentally abusive towards me , snapping all the time, yelling at me, saying everything is my fault.
i could go on and on but i won't , ill just say that i had a gut feeling he was cheating without all the evidence , and i was right .
In the end i found his emails and confronted him, in which he replied " what emails , there are no emails " needless to say that sicko is long gone lol
2007-12-09 09:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-09 18:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Paula J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man was made to cheat, they were wired to reproduce with women they think will make the best looking babies and continue the human race, of course this is subconscious though. unless they state it's a commitment, their 2nd brain will do the thinking. then THAT'S cheating, if you two agree it's exclusive. they stutter and dont seem as easy going and avoid eye contact as much as possible when you ask where they were.
2007-12-09 17:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by piiiowfort 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well actions speak more then words. If they are short, and slow to answer e-mail, text, phone calls. Plus if they dont wanna have sex with you as often. Think about it, we are pre-wired when we are born to have sex. If its not with you, its with somebody else.
You will notice in there actions rather then what they say. My advice, cheat on them before they cheat on you. Then what are they going to do? its showing that your rare and wanted by others. Maybe not if your married though, im to lazy to find out
2007-12-09 17:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband kept pushing me to have an affair. He kept saying that he wanted me to be able to experience more partners (he was the only person I had been with). I found out much later that he was having affairs with multiple women at the same time he was pushing me to sleep with other men. Obviously him wanting me to have an affair was to ease his own guilty conscience.
2007-12-09 17:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing....my "husband" was living a double life and I never suspected anything. Totally threw me for a loop
2007-12-09 17:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kathern 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"don't call me- I'll be busy (or can't get to the phone etc)".
SUDDENLY wanting to know where you'll be for how long and exactly when you'll be back or out of work. Suggesting you go out of town often. Constantly checking cell phone (unless they always do that). All this s*** I got off of watching Cheaters.
2007-12-09 17:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by jt_eradicator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing until he got upset when he wanted to go to a concert with his friend and I asked him if I could go also. He over-reacted and I knew right then that he was meeting a woman.
2007-12-09 19:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Act out of character. You can tell when they deviate. If you dont flip out they will get comfortable and reveal themselves even more. I am learning to deal with dirty mate sydrome. Seems it is rampant these days.
2007-12-09 17:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by quienbee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-09 17:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋