I generally have a very low sex drive but in the last 2 weeks (since I miscarried my first pregnancy) I have been desperate for sex and constant physical contact. And I mean I want it ALL the time. Does anyone know what's going on?? It's not only sex, I want to be held all the time too, tightly, and basically anyone will do. Help!!
2007-12-09 07:36:42 · 16 answers · asked by M&B 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I'm not sure about some of these responses!
I, myself, went through the loss of a pregnancy almost 2 weeks ago. I also had a D&C to remove the pregnancy (we had a blighted ovum at 6w2d). I have been experiencing a very increased sex drive with my husband. We usually would have sex about twice a month...sometimes more depending on if Grandma and Papa took our 5 year old overnight! But, alas, I cannot act on my urges because we were told not to have sex for at least 4 weeks....I'm dying! I never wanted it as bad as I do now...and I haven't wanted it like this since we first started dating years and years ago!! I'm unsure if it's the hormone changes or the fact that we were told we can't have sex. I can't even orgasm!!! So....ANYthing is out of the question! It really sucks!
As far as seeing a therapist....I don't think that is necessary....you're just craving getting back to normal...and being a woman who is sexual. It could be the hormonal shifts...I agree with that. But, seeking medications and a therapist doesn't sound like the answer right now. Yet, that's just my personal opinion!
2007-12-09 08:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lovin' Life As Mama & Wife 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, everyone is different and every pregnancy is different.. On both my pregnancies my sex drive went up also. It's like you want it all the time when your pregnant! It's just part of being pregnant!!! And mine didn't die down after I had the baby either as one person said before.. My sex drive is still high LOL... Good luck!
2016-05-22 08:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're emotionally unstable.
Been there, done that. No, seriously. I've been in your shoes. After I had a miscarriage a while back, I became promiscuous. I wasn't doing it with people that I didn't know.. but I did it with men I was friends with.. which ended up ruining our friendships in the long run because neither of us wanted a relationship but it made our friendships awkward.
I was using sex as an excuse to get over the pain that I was in.
Sweetie, rather then hurt yourself more, you should see a therapist. My therapist has helped me so much.. I think that's what you need.
2007-12-09 07:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well it seems that you have a psychological longing to consume a another baby. Thus , you have a desperate desire for sexual intercourse. The Hugging is a sign of bonding that you did not get with your baby. Hence, you want to bond with the people around you.
I recommend you go on antipyschotic drugs to calm yourself.
2007-12-09 07:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Separation.
You were all set for someone that you would be with for at least 18 years. That was stripped away from you.
And now you want to be together again. And maybe you want to get pregnant again if you were that excited about the baby.
2007-12-09 07:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by JW 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Could be some natural mechanism to procreate. Wow that also sounds very exciting. hahhahha
2007-12-09 07:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not exactly sure yet . I would have to give you a thorough physical examination before giving a diagnosis.
2007-12-09 07:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jimmy C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its traumatizing to loose a baby. you just want someone to be there for you and hold you close in their arms. its completely normal. you're probably just emotionally racked that you just need the presence of a guy to love you. so don't worry, everything's alright ;)
2007-12-09 07:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Luvin Usagi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leftover hormones.
2007-12-09 07:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by Marissa1982 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its one of those things the human female has stored in the psyche somewhere.
you are ready for a baby and your mind is helping you along.
isn't the body and mind remarkable?
2007-12-09 07:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋