Describe your biggest unhappiness break up from a significant other.? what did you find out that made you do?

Answer 1

In most of them it has been cheating on me, that is one thing that is not forgiven by me, once and you are done and gone!! There is never an excuse for that to be acceptable!!

Answer 2

Hey all break ups cause change usually change that people aren't exactly prepared for. For me; a guy name Marcus. The only thing one can do when deciding whether to stay in or out is ask themselves a few questions and answer honestly. One and the most important is: Is the relationship salvageable and worth saving? If it is then, can you live with what he/she has done. If so give it a try. But don't say you can and you forgive but beat a person over the head with it everyday. Next can you trust him/her? No one wants to remain in a relationship with skeletons and mistrust that will only make you both miserable. Finally, is the love still there? It isn't worth the trouble if you don't have love.

Answer 3

That would be my first break-up. When I dumped him and walked away. I could actually feel a pain in my chest like my heart was breaking.

But as far as what happened that was great. I had just switched high schools, and I heard from friends at my old school that my boyfriend of 3YRS. was dating other girls. So I had a new friend at my new school. Call him up start flirting to see what he would do.

Anyway long story cut short, they are married now. People suck sometimes.

Answer 4

My daughter accidentally picked up on a phone call between her step-dad and a girl he had been having a flirtation with. Then it came out that he had spent a week with her while he was on the road doing an installation job. Upon further investigation, I found she was not the only one. He had tons of expensive unexplainable gifts and he mysteriously "lost" his wedding ring. It happened at Christmas time and practically destroyed me physically, emotionally and financially.
I am well out of it now and grateful that I didn't put myself through any further embarrassment by trying to make it work. He's been married 4 times since we split.

Answer 5

I went to work one morning at 400 AM, got hurt, left work in an ambulance, and as i was checking out of ER, a cop friend of mine called and told me she had pressed charges of Domestic Violence that morning and he was on the way to arrest me. I told him i would just meet him at the jail, and was booked and held for 12 hours in a hospital gown. Sitting in that cell, it occurred to me that the marriage was over.

Answer 6

I loved her SO MUCH and she straight out informed me that I wasn't good enough for her. It was like having my heart ripped out and I was never quite the same person afterward. I got even with her eventually but I still feel like sh*t whenever I remember that.

Answer 7

I had a wonderful husband who stood by me when I was violently attacked. The attack left me living on alcohol to stand myself. Tom tried to help me but I pushed him away.

He could not take it anymore and he left me for one of my 'friends". I let him go without a fight because I was so screwed up.

Answer 8

I found out he wasn't that into me. He ignored me and I finally realized that he didn't feel me. II left and life has been good to me. So, life goes on and it's better than I expected.

Answer 9

I was involved with a married man for three years.When I found out his wife had had a third child ,I was very hurt!That was the end for me.

Answer 10

we were married 20 years and 9 days. He brought his girlfriend home with him.