I fell in love with Ryan the most amazing guy I ever met, & we had bumps, & I messed up a bit. We broke up & stopped talking. Later we were talking again & I got pregnant. I told him that it wasn't his & he said he wouldn't raise it. We stopped talking & I had an abortion b/c I thought it would fix things. I started dating a guy who treated me really well, & we had a lot of fun. Ryan started bringing me flowers everyday. he started fighting 4 me when he always said he wouldn't fight for anyone. He told me that he would have raised the baby. I told him I thought it was too late to be w/ me & he was so hurt he moved across the country. I got married & now I feel trapped but he's my best friend. Ryan & I had e-mailed often. Now he's visiting but hubby is in jail for a bit. I'm prego w/ my hubbys kid and he's excited, but I want 2 b w/ Ryan. He doesn't know I'm pregnant/married. He wants to be w/ me but he would be so hurt if he knew. Thinking adoption but doubt hubby would. PLEASE HELP!
2007-12-09 07:05:41 · 9 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
wow your not going to abort this one too?? this is pathetic quit making babies if you're this selfish....
oh but you wanna be with ryan right?? tougghhh grow up
2007-12-09 07:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My only question regarding your situation, why would u put your child up for adoption? That baby doesn't deserve to be abandoned and whoever you choose to be with, you can still raise that baby. Before you decide what you are going to do, you should really think about that baby because your child deserves a wonder full life and the least you could do is try to provide that. Children are blessings that you shouldn't take for granted.
2016-05-22 08:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its so sad reading about people on here who have been ttc concieve and havent had any luck and tht they still are being positive and strong. and there are people like you. i dont know the situation entirely but there is no reason for a baby to be abortd in my eyes. especially not for a man. you need to figure out who is the one for you, and if they cant except the baby they are obviously not worth it. im not sure i got the bit about the adoption, but you obviously dont care about the baby if you re willing to just give it up for adoption because of some guy. please please think about what you are doing, you may come to regret it otherwise.
2007-12-09 07:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by littlemiss 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grow up.
Not sure what your husband did to get put in jail, but I still feel sorry for the guy. Apparently you don't take marriage vows very seriously, or a baby for that matter. Hell, even "Ryan" is getting lied to. You're a piece of work.
You disgust me.
2007-12-09 07:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Wow, adopting out your kid because there's a possability of you being with Ryan?
Freaking selfish, and that's VERY sad that you're even contemplating it. And I have NOTHING else further to say.
Well, except that I'm DISGUSTED.
2007-12-09 07:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by His Lady 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
just explain to ur lover that youre pregnant and married he'll understand tell him you were lonely and didnt know what to do... and you made a mistake and youre not letting the baby suffer. keep the baby .. and you didnt say when your hubby will be out of jail and how many months pregnant..
2007-12-09 07:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by cheekz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what "a bit" is and what for. For example if it was on domestic abuse, the question would be much easier to answer.
2007-12-09 07:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by lillilou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't there a relationships section since this doesn't directly deal with pregnancy?
2007-12-09 07:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good luck with that hope it works out four you.
2007-12-09 07:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋