im a girl and i like a girl of my school(she's kinda my friend). this is my last year in high school so i decided to tell her about how i felt in a party.she told me how pretty i looked at the party.
when the party was finishing i told her to come with me cuz i had something to tell her.i stayed with her like 10 mint trying to tell her. at first she thought that i wanted her to help me with some boy she knew but when i told her she put a weird face and said :r u serius? r u serius?i said yes and then she said: no!! no, i dont share ur ideas. ill keep talking to u(i dunno if thats true i think she only said this cuz before i told her that i liked her i said she wouldnt talk with me anymore)
then we stayed there in silence till she saw 1 of her friends and left. i saw her again in the club when she was leaving and she only looked me in the eyes without sying bye or a smile, nothing.
well the problem is that im going tosee her for the last time next week .should i talk to her or what?.
2007-12-09 06:08:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
she is obviously not comfortable with your feelings towards her.. so say good bye and that you are sorry that she is uncomfortable around you and that you think that she no longer wants to be friends and wish her luck with her life..
2007-12-09 06:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would try to talk to her. You need to decide if you can be friends, and JUST friends. If so tell her you did not mean to offend her but you do not want to lose her friendship. Tell her you understand she was surprised but that you are still the same person she was friends with before and you would like to remain friends.
If she does not, then that is too bad for her that she is willing to lose a good friend because she is bigoted. If this is the case just move on and realize you will eventually find the right person and not everyone will reject you because of something you have no control over.
Good Luck finding the right person for you!
2007-12-09 06:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by B. D Mac 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I feel for you, You were really brave to tell her how you feel, and I suppose you must have prepared yourself that she may not feel the same. It was a really tense moment for you both, and I think of all the negative reactions she would've had, she dealt with it quite well. I would say just give her time. She has told you that she doesn't feel the same way, and I'm sure you will respect that. It will be weird for a while, but just act the same with her, and it will move on. Just talk about what you would've done before you came out to her. Then she will get the message that you are OK with her too.
Good luck.
2007-12-09 06:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by tipping the velvet 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She just could not handle what you put on her. You cannot force her to get over it, but if you really want to stay in touch, talk to her when you get a chance and offer to be just friends. Don't continue to push the issue, but it is out there. If she wants to bring it up or discuss it later, great. You will find that college years are a time a lot of girls experiment with alternative lifestyles to some extent or another. Stay in touch (if she is willing) and see what happens as she does a little growing up over the next few years. At least you guys can continue as friends
2007-12-09 06:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Cosmopolite 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Talk to her as if you never mentioned your romantic feelings. If she snubs you, give her time to get over the awkwardness of your confession. Don't bring up the subject again or apologize for your feelings (if you were a guy and told her you liked her and she didn't return the feelings there'd be nothing else to say, right?). Just interact with her as you always have and see if she really intends to continue the friendship in an adult manner.
2007-12-09 06:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by clearentertainermanagement 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
from what i bear in techniques from while i became 13, all i will say is in basic terms act somewhat mature. no longer "mature" as in caught up, yet in basic terms think of somewhat previously performing. that and manners, thats all you choose, women have a organic phenomena which will lead them to outwardly perfect no rely what, finally, so in basic terms artwork on your manners, character, and adulthood till then
2016-11-15 00:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have nothing to lose. I think she feelz otherwise and not in tune. Will it help you by talking to her? Or are you just wasting your time. If the relations between you and her depleted then theres not much to say. If you really want to know then confront her. I think her body language has already spoken about how she feels about the subject.
2007-12-09 06:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by tiki_bo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She pretty much indicated to you that she is not interested in you in a sexual sense, and you weren't real friends to begin with- so give up the hope that you two will have a relationship. It isn't going to happen.
if you still want to talk to her, just say hello, and follow her lead. If she doesn't act interested, leave her alone.
2007-12-09 06:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by kiwibarb11 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
holy **** man-
thats so messed up
i think you lost her tho :/
just say hi to her-
and well- let the luck be with you-
still- it sucks pretty bad o_O
im a girl (dont mind the yahoo thing)
be ok >.<
2007-12-09 06:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yeah talk to her.. say.. "I apologize if i affended you" We could just be friends... tell her your not going to try anything with her... good luck
2007-12-09 06:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋