please help.
2007-12-09 05:51:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Divorce your husband first. he deserves better.
2007-12-09 06:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by hewlett p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mrs WC here. First, your husband should not have allowed his brother (or anyone) to move in without you both being in agreement over it. Spouses should be in agreement for any decision that affects the household. I wouldn't go behind my husband's back and toss the bum out tho, hubby might toss you out. You don't mention children, but if you have them, how this affects them would be a concern also. Ask your husband what HE considers a reasonable amount of time for his brother to "get on his feet". The two of you should decide what would be a good time frame. He's had 3 months already. Has he been looking for work or just goofing off. If he's not been looking, point this out to your husband and tell him the two of you can't be responsible for this grown man. Chances are your BIL doesn't care. Why should he when his "bro" is taking care of him? If he's NOT going to work, then he should help out around the house. Depending on what your brother was in prison for, he may have trouble getting a job. In that case, you don't want him freeloading off you for the rest of his life. After you and hubby decide on a time frame, the three of you should sit down and find out WHAT this guys goals are for the future and tell him that he only has X amount of time to get it together and move out. Remember, when you give an ultimatum, you need to be prepared for the opposite response of you're looking for.
2016-04-08 03:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you try again. Let's see how far you can push it before you get fired and your husband divorces you.
2007-12-09 06:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty gross. i think you should stop and move on to your husband, whos more likely to respond to those moves.
2007-12-09 06:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by xmomox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop.
2007-12-09 06:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Bye for now... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nusrai, You are married !!! Stop that !!!
2007-12-09 05:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it
2007-12-09 05:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by Stevie Ray Vaughn lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the moves on your husband. Leave the boss alone. Duh.
2007-12-09 05:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋