If a person likes you and you know about it but don't like him and he says that he loves you but you feel that you don't want to break his heart, But you still know that you don't like him. What would you do? Secondly you don't have the guts to say this confidently and do not want to be rude to the person. What will be your reaction?
2007-12-09 05:49:42 · 14 answers · asked by Juhi Chavda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i strongly believe in transparency...
it is better to tell him the truth... rather than keeping him confused and guessing about your intention... as finally you are going to reject him...
tell him you two have different paths to to go for different destinations... it is better to accept the truth... and be good friends (minus romance / affair)...
if you are a beautiful girl... you will have to encounter such situations frequently... please be practical...
2007-12-09 19:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vow! I have also faced the same situation. Well he was my class fellow in 11 th ( last year). I used to be very uneasy in his presence. Then on 18 th of Nov I decided to " face the Problem forever" instead of trying to escape every time. I am basically very polite ( as my friends say ). One day I planned and invited him for a Coffee in a local restaurant That was the first time when I gave him a chance to open his heart. After a few formalities he told me that he loves me. Well I was ready to face this situation. I told him " You have put me in a fix. I think I should tell you every thing frankly. Amith, I am already committed to some one else. And I love him." Please don't misunderstand me I like you as a good friend, but I am not in a position to accept you more than it.
And you won't believe, Amith immediately told me " Oh I am sorry I was in a wrong impression. Any way I am thankful to you for telling me the truth. And it was then that I got rid of the dilemma. I would advise you too, to act in the same way and face the situation bravely.
2007-12-09 17:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Student 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont like him, but u like not 2 dissopoint him it means u r thinking abt him more. i do that i measure how much love input by person b'coz if u dont like is up 2 u no 1 will force 2 get feelings from u, but 1 day every one should realize how much it cost 2 get love frm others in a pure.but one thing u can do u can love him as a friendly as friend in need if friend in deed. or u can say i am comfortable with u as a friend just open u r feelings it will b better frm 2 sides.
2007-12-09 14:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by anush k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to tell him the truth instead of maintaining silence in this matter , which gives a wrong signal.He is likely to assume that you also like him as he does and you simply a bit shy to spell out boldly.
If you don't wish to hurt him , it's better you tell him politely that you consider him as a good friend and nothing beyond that.It's needed......otherwise he has to face greater shock later on.
2007-12-09 14:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore his praposal and start talking with him talk so fast that he forgot his topic and then keep him engaged in it do whenever necesarry
and in ur talks console him that u both are gud friends not anything much tell a fake to him that u have a crush on anyone else see yar we can say fake because it will prevent his heart not to be break
2007-12-09 13:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by AaSHEK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r confused.As u said u dont like him but at the same time u dont want to hurt him, that means u have something for him. so better think again and then decide. If you r sure that u dont like him then say immediately. it would be better for u both else at last he will be in pain,
2007-12-09 15:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by ashish k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was happend with me I told love a girl and told her i love u she likes me but she dosen't wanna marry me because her big sister is unmarried, then she told me she loves me as a good friend and she wanna be my good friend and after 2 years she is my best friend :). if u feel good, so u can try this
if u wanna any seggestion u can mail me amit0shakya@gmail.com best of luck.
2007-12-10 03:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him girl that you are already someone else's..and he has a wrong impression of you in him.tell this when he is in a good condition to listen.some guys can't face these kinda sitiuations.all the best.
2007-12-10 01:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by flygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't want to break his heart, say the truth. Don't let him have false hope.
2007-12-09 13:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to tell him the truth.
2007-12-09 14:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by 2_b_or_not_2_b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋