♥In spite of everybody's concern my friend and I who I met on the Internet we both believe that this can work out and turn into something special. How about you?
He is from the US and I am from India. He says he wants to come to India and meet me. Before jumping the gun I need your opinion.
Thanks Fans/Friends♥
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2007-12-09 05:27:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Let me be the voice of reason here. Long distance romances are very difficult. You can't get to know the real him until you spend time with him in many different circumstances. You need to not only meet his parents, you need to interact with them over time and also observe how he interects with his parents and friends.
Everyone puts there best foot forward when they're dating. When they get married, that's no longer possible because no one has the energy to keep up that front (image) for long when you're living with each other person and have all the stresses of married life.
Even if he comes to India to meet you, you won't be able to tell anything about him. If you are like most people, you will spend your time being "affectionate" with each other, your hormones will work overtime, and it will feel wonderful and exciting.
These things are not what a serious romantic relationship are based on. A serious romantic relationship is based on similar religious beliefs, similar cultural beliefs and expectations, similar life goals, and each person being of good moral character.
Yes, love needs to be there too, but if the things I mentioned are not there also, you are in for a very rough time. It's extremely hard to find out all the things you need to know about him when you live so far apart.
If you were my daughter, this is what I would say to you. I want you to be happy, I want you to find someone to love who loves you and that you can have a life with. Please don't be so eager that you don't use your head as well as your heart.
2007-12-09 14:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation. I think your thingie can work out. You are several steps further than I am at this point, but mine is a fairly new relationship so I am taking my time and learning about this person.
If he wants to come meet you then by all means meet. That will be the determining factor after all, is how well you get along face to face. I am assuming you trust this person or that you will be meeting for the first time in a public place. You know in your heart what is right for you. I am excited for you and wish you the best of luck..I just hope that I am facing this same possibility in the next year or so..
*pssst email me & let me know how it goes...........*
this was a serious question right???
2007-12-09 12:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you both have had plenty of time to get to know each other. If so and you both still believe it can work. Then it is well worth trying. Yes I think any Internet thingie can work. A lot haven't worked but that doesn't mean anyone shouldn't give it a try. Best of all this guys willing to come to you to see if it could. So happy hunting!
2007-12-09 07:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the specifics, you were a little vague. But generally speaking, I met my boy on the internet and it's been fine. I think the extra time to get to know each other before meeting helps out a relationship lots. Just don't listen to what people say, but also use your best judgement on whether or not it feels like a safe thing to do to meet him. And good luck!!
2007-12-09 05:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it could work out for the best for both of you. I wish you the best of luck, but I must say, be careful. There are men and women on here who aren't what they seem. I trust that you have good judgment, but I feel I should warn you not to be stupid like I almost was. Bring someone with you. Meet in a public place. Bring pepper spray. Just in case, but be sure to keep an open mind because he could be the love of your life. I hope everything works out well for you!
2007-12-09 13:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Goddess Princess Minky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in an internet relationship for 11 months. Mine worked out. We met in October, and it was the best week of my life.
2007-12-09 05:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything's possible. My recommendation, before you do that - spend a lot of time TALKING. Given long distance rates, I'd say you should both get web cams and skype each other, so you can see and hear each other, which would give you a better way to really get to know him.
2007-12-09 07:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Spartacus! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I tell ya - I've done the Internet thing - and it was blissful while it remained on the internet. Then we moved forward in our relationship and it went downhill... as with yourself, my 'love' was an American too.
Just be cautious.
2007-12-09 06:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about other browsers but you will get best security with Internet Explorer 8.thats for sure.
2016-04-08 03:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Good Luck
2007-12-09 09:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by mikeydonatelli 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋