My girlfriend is about 2 1/2 months pregnant, her mood swings are getting worse. She yells and cries and everything alot, and i try to comfort her, but then she says that i dont love her and its all my fault. What should i do?
2007-12-09 05:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You need to just agree with whatever she wants. Its good that you are not yelling back and getting mad. She can't help it and you two did this together,but she is stuck with the more difficult end of things. You just need to understand what she is going through and that she can't help it. So just keep comferting her and let her know you love her and your there and you'll be fine. Congrats !!!
2007-12-09 05:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol gee, I think my boyfriend should have asked this question 9 1/2 months ago. He told me the other day, "I don't think I could handle you being pregnant again." It was so nice!
I wish he just understood that...
We women can seriously not help it. Hormones make you say/do crazy things, without even thinking about what you're doing or the consequences of it. You just know that thats what you want to say AT THE TIME and thats all that matters. Hug her when she's feeling moody, kiss her when she acts off the wall, and let her know that despite her crazy antics here lately, you still love her to death. :)
(Just DON'T laugh at her when she says something crazy, or say, "Ugh, your hormones are driving me crazy." keep those things to yourself.)
2007-12-09 13:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by His Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww I'm sorry. Good for you for not getting annoyed and yelling back. The key is patience. When she says that you don't love her, just say "You know I do love you and will do anything to make this easier for you." (Then follow through.) Even if she says she doesn't want a hug, give her one. This may sound like "buying her off," but occasionally surprising her with flowers or another small, even inexpensive token will bring a smile to her face and remind her that you do love her.
2007-12-09 13:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Esma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's tough for you, but think of it this way - it's going to get a lot tougher for your poor girlfriend in 7 months!! So be nice to her and try to understand. She really can't help it, hormones make you do and say crazy things. Be patient, good luck! x
2007-12-09 13:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by coca cola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there! It will be better as she gets into her second Trimester. Try to have patience with her. We really really don't have much control over our feelings and we dont always mean what we say. Just hug her when she wants to be hugged and give her space when she wants it.
2007-12-09 13:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Pedsgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the long haul. When she is calm try to talk to her. Tell her that you know that she is going though a lot and that you want to help her as best you can and you can't unless she lets you. Tell her to let you know what she needs. When she has a craving at 2am try your best to get what she wants.
2007-12-09 13:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very patient,gentle & understanding if I were you, & look
out for Post Natal Deppression it sounds like she is severely
affected by hormonal imbalance affected nuerosis
2007-12-09 13:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when your prego your hormones are crazy! so moodswings happen.. try bringing her flowers and fruit and rub her feet and back and juist do nice things fo her. she is going to be moody but that could help a little but cause it will show her you realy do care!
2007-12-09 13:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ladii Jae 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just deal with it in about 7 8 months she'll be back to normal...yes she will still be a bit off after.
2007-12-09 13:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have patience, patience and more patience. She doesn't hate you, she just cant help it. Its a crazy mixed up time. She should mellow out a bit after her first trimester.
2007-12-09 13:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by Alexanders and Katherines mama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋