most people are insecure. even admitting the possibiliy that they could be at fault would crush their fragile egos. you can tell how insecure a person is by how defensive they get in this situation. people refuse to take responsibility for their lives for many reasons, including but not limited to: insecurity, laziness, and immaturity. I wouldn't say everyone is like that though, only most people. However, the reason you find no one admitting fault may lie with the questions you are answering. I think deep down people know where blame should do, and they definitely already know whether or not they are going to admit responsibility. So you are unlikely to get questions like, "is it possible that I'm to blame" because they will either be honest with themselves and answer the question themselves, or they will fully deny it. Also if someone has accepted responsibility, they are unlikely to have a question on the subject because they already know the answer. So what you get is a group of people who ask questions hoping to get answers that will confirm their denial of blame, responsibility, or guilt.
2007-12-09 04:44:52
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answer #1
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answered by endo_krono 2
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if there is a problem that involves me... i must have done something so yeah i take my part of the blame. some people you just do not get along with so they should be avoided. and other times you have to know when to put your hands up and say... look it was me, ill take some of the blame... but it takes 2 to cause a problem so im not init alone... thats not entirely tking responsibility but you are compromising so if everyone compromised the world would be a better place.
sorry, blame it on me - akon... its a song and the singer accepts blame and says even though its not his fault he'll take the blame... i laughed when i heard it because he was saying... IT WASNT ME BUT YEAH BLAME ME... thats not accepting lol
dont give up hope and keep searching... im sure someone out there takes blame for everything they know is there fault and they arent a nut or a monk or priest or someone who accepts everything because they are depressed and always blame themselves...
i don't think you've answered any of my questions... simply because i have yet to post one LOL... but if i did post a question about a problem... ill tell both sides of the story and i can garantee this because when i talk to my sisters about friends trouble i do it neutrally and they give me their honest opinion and most often all i have to do is make small changes for it all to be better so i take responsibility and make changes.
i also apologise... its hard but hey... i apologise and then avoid the person if necessary...
you do your bit and try to teach others... just remember some can not be taught so dont blame yourself
happy responsibilities (which reminds me i have to do the ironing) =]
2007-12-09 05:47:13
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answer #2
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answered by Smile =D 5
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I assume full responsibility for everything. In fact, if something comes up in my life that I think I may be looking at too subjectively, I talk to my son about it. He is wonderful at looking at the situation objectively even though I am his mother. I have always been that way with him, so he has learned. When introspection doesn't work, I have him to help. :)
I always try to start off by blaming myself. I look at how I might have handled a situation better. Then I move on from there. :)
2007-12-09 05:05:13
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answered by Trina™ 6
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people are fearful of looking inside themselves for faults or errors in judgements that have befallen them because if the find out it was a problem with themselves and nobody else is to blame then they have to change and most people are scared to do this because of the amount of time they put into presenting an image of themselves to the world that they think others will admire, they believe they succeeded and if they have to change this may be affected, so its easier to blame others for our own mistakes,
you can see this behaviour in some of the most famous politicians and religious leaders of the world they all believe that there way is the best and that everyone other way is wrong and should be stopped hence the present global instability and security problems
2007-12-09 06:31:08
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answered by clearair1234 2
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God knows human beings too nicely... He would not could see our movements, because of the fact His commentary is on the point of purpose and concept additionally... God knows of our underlying purpose at the back of each little thing we do... He knows of is in basic terms too nicely.. and He judges our movements with the help of our intentions... people who think of they're going to fool the international and someplace escape God's eye additionally.. finally fool themselves... you have suggested it very properly.. the lil acts of badness that we do at the back of different's backs at cases.. is the clarification for the unexplained mess united statesand sorrows we get.. and then we are saying " what did i do incorrect " not realising how advantageous replaced into God's commentary and how uncomplicated is His judgement. as quickly as we understand that we will earnings not something with the help of criticising others.. attempting to discover faults interior the exterior international.. then we are able to experience the want of self annalysis than annalysing the international and others... " we may be the replace that prefer to work out interior the international ".. Gandhi ji has suggested it very properly... subsequently... we could do issues with honesty and ease.. because of the fact finally an extremely uncomplicated judgement is going again frm God's palms...
2016-10-02 07:46:24
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answered by ? 3
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I think it's perhaps a natural instinct to point the figure of blame, rather then to look inside our selves for a problem there. But I don't think all problems come with an exact 50/50% blame ability. But it is good to look at our selves first when blame is involved. But not so easy to do.
2007-12-09 04:49:22
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answered by Hi T 7
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People fear introspection (or questioning themselves too deeply) because they might find out that their precious little illusions are indeed that, illusions, and that might force them to make changes in their lifestyles.
Even if people know deep down that their lifestyle patterns need improvement, they are even more afraid of change, even if it is for the better, so they go on the defensive or lash out at others who are trying to bring about healthy change.
Fear distorts people's ability to see the truth.
2007-12-09 04:32:29
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answer #7
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answered by megalomaniac 7
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I lived my life this way for years blaming outside factors e.g. people, environment, jobs, family but I had a rude awaking a few years ago which made me take a good long look at myself now I do this self inventory on a regular basis, it helps me grow and become a better person.
It just really fear and pride keeping us from looking at ourselves.
2007-12-09 14:59:28
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answer #8
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answered by farleyjackmaster 5
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I must be in the minority then, because I always think EVERYTHING is my fault when things go wrong. Realistically, I know that can't be possible, but I always think that if I had handled MY 50% of the situation more effectively it would have turned out more positively.
2007-12-09 04:34:22
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answered by LolaCorolla 7
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I'm responsible for my acts of thought, word, and deed whether I own up to it or not. I try to own up to it though.
2007-12-09 04:32:22
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answered by Sophrosyne 4
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