Ok I am trying to move on with my life and my soon to be ex husban is emailing me tell me that he still loves me and he cant get his mind off of me. He left me for another girl and moved away and now he cant stop thinking about me. I dont know if he really meens it or he is just playing me. What should I do?
2007-12-09 03:03:11 · 19 answers · asked by elaine c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ignore him and move on with your life. He left YOU for someone else and now he is realizing the grass isn't always greener. You can forgive but never forget, your relationship and trust for him is over. No matter what you do, never accept less than you deserve.
2007-12-09 03:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to tell what he means without actually knowing the guy but he either means it and really regrets his decision, or he just wants what he can't have anymore. You need try to read him with those two options in mind and see if he really wants to be with you or if he just finds you more appealing now that you're not readily available to him like you were before. He was used to a life with you though and may be thinking about you a lot because it was a large and sudden change in his life and getting back with him may just eventually lead to the same old heartbreak.
2007-12-09 03:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 05:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by sedlay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical male response when the male is about to lose his security "blanket". Does he mean it? Only you can answer that as youre the only one who knows him and his past record but chances are probably not based on male reactions top losing any stability in their lifes. Hes probably just saying what he thinks you want to hear, and to avoid huge divorce costs, to kepp you around and then shortly will return to his game playing. But only you can decide if he really means it and how long will it last. Good luck and Happy Holidays
2007-12-09 03:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated and now wants to come back. Most of them do when they realize what they have lost. HE cheated on you, you are moving on with your life... don't look back. If you take him back could you ever really trust or respect him again. He broke your heart now that's its mending are you willing to reopen those old wounds. I know this is all hard on you, been there and done that. Tell him he made his choices to destroy your marriage and now its TO LATE. I'm sorry hun i know the past is hard to give up but you have a future ahead. GO for it. I don't know why it happens but it seems like once they cheat and you take them back its like your giving them your permission to cheat again and again, until you are left feeling dead inside. Don't allow him to do that to you... Go on with your life its waiting for you, and you deserve the best. God Bless
2007-12-09 03:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its the classic scenario of the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. now the question is do you love him and trust him and want to give him another chance. or do you fear if you gave him another chance it will be the same thing later on? It does sound to me that this man is playing you, If he was truly sorry his rear end would be on your doorstep begging for forgiveness rather than sending you a cheezy email
2007-12-09 03:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by john d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he found out that this other girl wasn't as great as he thought. If he really wants to come back to you and you want to make it work you should tell him he has to leave the woman he is with. If he comes up with excuses why he can't do that then he is playing with you.
2007-12-09 03:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say he's just playing. If he already moved on with another woman it sounds like he just wants one last fling with you.. like a goodbye fling. If he really loved u he would have realized his mistake before he moved away. Maybe he's finally feeling guilty but he probably only wants to get laid one last time.
2007-12-09 03:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by jwalkr_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone outside the box could advise you on this. You'll have to go with what your heart tells you. If you accept him back you'll need continual reassurance from him which i doubt he'll have to offer. Furthermore, many (Not all) who cheat and are forgiven will cheat again. If its your choice to move on then stick to your guns and don't allow him to see any doubt. His weakness and indecisiveness can become your strength!
2007-12-09 03:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is regretting his decision because the affair has fizzled out. But, of course, I am just guessing. Only you can decide what to do, but often if they do it once they do it again. He maybe using you as a safety blanket.........someone to run back to when things haven't gone the way he expected. You will have to trust your own judgement on this one.
2007-12-09 03:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋