2007-12-09 03:02:27 · 40 answers · asked by Brown Skin! 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would say yes. They can also be in one, NOT love the person and cheat.
Most of the problems with others judging cheaters, is that they think they could never be one. Most are very young, not been married long or lack much experience.
No matter what society does, dictates or proscribes in terms of human behavior, we are animals after all. We really are not designed biologically to be monogamous. Some can, some can't and some just don't want to be. But I think only a fool judges what s/he does not understand.
There are as many reasons for cheating as there are cheaters. But having worked for years with couples, I can tell you that those who subscribe to "once a cheater..." are bitter for having been cheated on or just swallow whatever they hear others say. I have seen too many couples go from one partner cheating to a more loving and understanding relationship with a real commitment to make it work to believe such stupid nonsense.
Cheating is no different from anything else a person might want to change about him or herself. We all have choices. We do what we think best at the time. To judge someone else is to asked to be judged.
2007-12-09 03:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You can be in a relationship and like a person and cheat, but if you truely love someone then cheating is not an option.
Now you may be having problems with someone you love, but because you love them you would talk with them about the problems and try to work them out or the two of you would agree to part ways out of respect for each other. Not cheat.
2007-12-09 03:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by 2Negative 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has many faces. If a person has the love that he ought to for his partner, that person will not be compelled to cheat. They may not be able to cheat. If a person is both compelled and able, it is a clear sign that the love between the partners is not the full, complete love that it should be for both of them. They may still love each other, but the love is probably not what they thought it was.
2007-12-09 03:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by The Babe is Armed! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can or at least they say they can.. I believe loving someone and being faithful go hand in hand.
I knew someone that cheated on their wife and they swore they loved her to death but he wasn't getting it at home so if he could he was going to get it somewhere else. He said it had nothing to do with love it had to do just with sex.
What he really meant was he wasn't stupid enough to divorce her ( because he would lose to much financially) and find someone else he could love and be intimate with. He thought divorce was wrong and getting a little on the side was okay..
2007-12-09 03:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sugarplum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is deep and simple. Love is self-less not selfish. Love is fair but sacrifices. These are basic things about love. True love comes to those who understand that everyone is equal but different. Loving someone is like wanting to make some one feel great without doing it just so that person stays with you. You want to share life with the other person whenever possible.
When I love someone I don't want them hurting .Hurting others is not loving them .
2007-12-09 03:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
I laugh at those people who say to their bf/gf..You know I love you right?..But I cheated on you 10 times with someone else.
If you truly love the person..you would not cheat on them. You would at least give them the respect of leaving the relationship before sleeping around.
2007-12-09 03:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people believe they can have outside sex and it has nothing to do with love for their partner----just sexual variety for variety's sex. Is this superficial? Probably!! Then there are the polyamourous who have loving relationships with more than one partner and are open about it. Yes, a person can love their partner and cheat---are they a desirable or damaged partner???
2007-12-09 03:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ... The only reason we have cheating is due to religion. Why are you not allowed to love more than one person?
2007-12-09 03:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Holly Cookie Starr™♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this someone loves, no they cannot, they do not need to cheat. If they cheat, they simply do not love.
2007-12-09 03:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah they could love the person. But they're obviously not in love/devoted himself/herself 100% with the person if they can do that.
2007-12-09 03:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋