ok so this is how it goes. there is this final year projects in my school which is supposed to be done with ur friends as a team and is very important for my successful graduation for my diploma. i was thinking of working together with this group of freidns i treated as close friends but recently came to know about the fact that they have formed a final year project (FYP) team by themself and neither did they ask whether i wanted to be in their team nor even inform me that they have formed a team. everything happened so secretively and i was completely kept in the dark. it took some classmate of mine to inform that my 'friends' formed their FYP team and i felt abit embarrassed when he asked me how come i did not know abt it. it pissed me off and i went back home and scolded the bunch of 'friends' for their dishonest behaviour and for being such hypocrite who smiled and talked well to me in front of me and did all this treachery behind my back. Was what i did a correct deed
2007-12-09 01:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by sathish g 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Umm..well what you did showed some type of jealousy. But honestly I would be pissed off to. Is their a limit to how many people should be in a group? if not. Then I don't think they see you the way you see them. What I mean by that is they don't feel besty friends to you than you feel in them. It sucks really..I would be pissed off to.
Only thing to do join another group and make sure your project beats them.
2007-12-09 01:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did what was the correct thing to do... a true friend would have included you in the project.... I know that when it comes to work or other issues sometimes friends get on your nerves and drive you crazy,,,, but a true friend will talk to you and help.... so think about why they did not call you.... find other friends
2007-12-09 01:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by More or less 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a problem between your friend and you much deeper than the treachery they did to you . Its a good occasion to ask yourself ;;Do I have enough social skill to make good friends
2007-12-09 04:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your hurt.
Did you ask them why they didn't want you to be in their project group?
maybe they were working on something they felt was of no interest to you.
maybe you're not a great worker and they thought you wouldn't do you share of work.
Maybe they didn't think of you as a best friend.
Only way to know is to go ask them.
2007-12-09 01:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by bobbie h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sateing your opinion was not wrong but maybe the way you did it was,scolding at times can be more harmful than good.
2007-12-09 01:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by wanna know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're really not worth your attention anymore if they did so.... I would say get over it and get new friends....
2007-12-09 01:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋