From Monday to Sunday. I have been going thru it. Monday found out i was pregnant. Tuesday went to the doc and they said they couldnt find a heart beat. Wednesday had to be rushed to the hospital cause i was bleeding and i had a urinary tract infection.. later on found out I gave my mate chlymedia (had no idea how this happen). Thursday doctor gives me all these shots in the booty and tell me that the reason im bleeding is because im having a miscarraige. Friday stabbing cramps. Saturday going on to Sunday.. found out my ex boyfriend who i had been having sex with was sexing my bestfriend roomate.. "thats y i was bringing girls over **** house and effing then and later coming to pick u up adn bring u back to eff u"-these were the words his text said. Now im sitting hear cluless wondering how am I suppose to feel!?!
2007-12-08 20:36:56 · 5 answers · asked by Canky Kisses 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Ok that's a lot to deal with in a week... or 2. but listen everything happens for a reason. You're mate was a jerk and being a d!ck. I feel bad for any woman who had a miscarriage because I myself went thru one, but maybe in the end it was for the best. I wouldn't want to have a baby with someone who did this to me.
I'm sorry and i feel really bad for you. I wish I could take your pain away because I know how you feel just not all at the same time... He gave you the std... he was sleeping around.
Don't have another baby with this guy...... you could do so much better, and a baby deserves a father that loves mommy, and wants to be with her and raise him/her right.
good luck sweetie, things will get better.... punch a wall, cry in a pillow, eat a gallon of ice cream... do what ever you have too to make yourself feel better..... you deserve it.
2007-12-08 21:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for the clap, if your guy is seeing other girls, you didn't give it to him. You're going through a rough time, girl. Keep your friends close, talk to your mom, just make sure you have some sort of support. Maybe take a break from your boyfriend (if not, dump his sorry butt. You can do better girl.) and get yourself checked for STD's, my dear. It's a rough time, so you need to put yourself first.
2007-12-08 20:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not over analyze how your are SUPPOSED to feel, just allow yourself time to grieve. The lose of your baby, your boyfriend and your friend.
Sometimes in life you just get kicked in the gut, this would definitely be one of those times. If I were you I would be stunned.
PS, dump the boyfriend and work out getting away from the roommate.
God Bless and you can get through this, just allow yourself time.
2007-12-08 21:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I discovered your situation mutually as finding for a Bible quote which has some thing to do with 'what you're saying, is so." the closest element i found is job 22:28, "Thou shalt additionally decree a element, and that's going to be accepted unto thee" yet it isn't any longer precisely it. even if, in case you think of you're hated. you're! superb is to no longer situation approximately it. yet it somewhat is unquestionably pronounced and not so unquestionably executed. a answer i'm able to recommend is to spend it sluggish itemizing out transgressions. there is plenty validating this concept yet too many volumes for this context. This element is to be as particular as attainable; e.g. once you probably did it, the place did it ensue, how grow to be it undesirable?, and what you probably did (or did no longer do - do no longer overlook an some thing you probably did no longer do and ought to have can be a transgression). merely once you get some loose time, write all of them down. while you're complete approximately it you ought to sense greater effectual. many property you have executed (or no longer executed) on your existence you merely overlook approximately. This action no longer merely enables memory yet grants relief, which it appears like what you're in seek of. save them maintain. in case you believe your minister then you certainly can latest them to him and make an apology. yet do no longer positioned up them. it is barely executed for you. it may take a protracted time. a number of your transgression would be hidden; for occasion, some thing you're unwilling to tell somebody would, to you, no longer likely be a transgression. The keynote of transgression is what harms greater desirable than it does solid. Harming a burglar who's robbing your loved ones and unsafe them bodily isn't likely a transgression. besides, element is merely commence writing them down. solid success.
2016-10-10 21:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to feel angry, feel angry. If you want to feel sad, feel sad. No one can tell you how you are supposed to feel.
And, make sure your ex remains an ex. If he gave you Chlamydia, which I'm sure he did, who knows what else he could infect you with.
Please be careful.
2007-12-08 22:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by missyshel76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋