im sure this happens, it's been in movies.
so im curious....
you sleep with a woman, and months, years later....
here is a child, you never knew was yours.
how would you feel about the woman? the child?
in your life now. weather you are married, single, have other children.. how would it affect you now?
2007-12-08 18:58:04 · 15 answers · asked by Porkchop 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
move to El Salvador
2007-12-08 18:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by jfjkekjeajkfekjfkejfjkekf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being brutally honest with myself? I actually think that would be quite interesting and a sweet bonus to life.
Being of the opinion that the world is severely overpopulated and that I am too young and adventurous to be tied down with a relationship let alone a child (despite plenty of other people in their early 20s or even late teens married with kids), I should be expected to feel horrible about contributing to that cycle. However, I can't help but feel that prime objective goal of passing on my genes and that ego selfish voice wanting a bunch of little me's running around. Logically I think it's crazy, but in a fantasy scenario it would be awesome to have children without the responsibility if there were no negative side effects (ie the mother is financially secure, the child grows up well adjusted, perhaps with some other father figure). Of course if I were to one day change my mind and consider having a child I would want the honor and duty of raising them into this crazy changing world.
2007-12-08 19:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of my nightmares.
And to answer the questions I'd feel I have the duty of being a father to the kid, to the mother, no duty at all (Though to the kid I'd never say anything bad about the mother).
How would it effect me know? I'd take a hell a lot of time to be in my kid's life. I have seen kids with fathers and mothers who did not care about them and I would not want someone who I brought into this world to suffer the same fate.
2007-12-08 19:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would you feel about the woman? Double u, tee, ef
in your life now. weather you are married, single, have other children.. how would it affect you now? I would be in great shock and in a EXTREME dilemma
2007-12-08 19:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be shocked for sure. My Dad had this happen twice to him and had another daughter that he knew about but that i did not until i was 16. I know i was shocked about each one of them being Sisters.
2007-12-08 19:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How'd you know I have an illegitimate child in El Salvador?
I would attempt to raise the child if possible.
2007-12-08 19:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My H has had this happen to him! lol He is too lazy to answer this so I will just say it does have a dramatic affect on the family structure*
2007-12-08 19:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Praise the Lord & give me a blood test
2007-12-08 19:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by RickeTy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apply to the Pope for sainthood, because I've never slept with any woman but my wife! ;-)
2007-12-08 19:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Alex M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have a paternity test to see if it mine. If it is, I'd see what the mother would want to do. If she doesnt want a relationship with me, then I would ask her if she would want financial help.
2007-12-08 19:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋