I have a girl friend who is 14 and bi, but doesn't have any bi friends in her area because none of the other girls she goes to school with are, or at least they don't want no one to know if they are. I was wondering what I could do to to help her or if there was any girls here interested??
2007-12-08 18:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by Mikey 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
She know she is, she just figured it out during the summer because she always got turned on by other girls.
2007-12-08 18:58:01 · update #1
well, 14 is pretty young to figure that out about herself (MEANING - thats why its hard to find someone else who is bi).
My mom didnt figure out she was a lesbian until she was around 30!
woa, people took this in the wrong way!! i MEAN other bi's around her probably dont know they are bi yet, and that why shes having trouble finding one!
2007-12-08 18:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Most people know in their teens if they are gay/Bi, but they are scared to admit it because there is so much prejudice about it that they just try to live a "Normal" life and end up being miserable.
2007-12-09 03:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are many communities online, like on Livejournal, for GBLT teens. when i was young, i joined http://www.youth-guard.org/ , which is an email group. you join, you introduce yourself, and the only people you can talk to are those in your age group (13-17), so everyone's going through a lot of the same things. i met a lot of people on there that i still talk to 5 years later.
2007-12-09 03:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her u support her...that it doesn't make any diff. who she's interested in to u. as long as she's happy ur happy. comfort her cause she may get a lot of flack about it. my friend tyler did he knows i'm there for him so he tells me anything he needs to. i recently found out he likes me and my bf. and hates that we're together. but we're bff
2007-12-09 03:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by katy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To the last person.
your mom may be slower to find her sexuality. but I knu I wuz BI when I was real little.
2007-12-09 02:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kels 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋