Ok well I have seen these guys who are overconfident which is not a bad thing but it becomes malicious when they decide to insult other people thinking that they're better than them. Obviously they are giving themselves way too much credit when they consider themselves to be the best in the world and believing that they can get any girl out there(pure stupidity). Too many times I have noticed that people who constantly mention and babble about how great of a person he/she is to others end up being very unpleasant. Of course I say this from experience but I guess it cant be the truth in all cases.
Than you find these very sweet people who constantly put themselves down. One of my dearest friends for example doesnt give himself enough credit when he's actually beautiful as a person. He is just too wonderful to have to feel in such a way. I mean he can also be self conscious about his physical appearance when in reality he's actually very attractive. I find it quite odd for some undeserving people to be so confident to the point where they would bring others down and the sweet worthwhile individuals thinking so low of themselves. Of course this isnt always the case and it can also be the other way around but it is something I have noticed.
2007-12-08 17:28:17 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
How can I say this in short?
Sweet guys naturally have something holding their ego back. They work hard on that, which makes them more receptive to other people's emotions, and sweeter and nicer to hang around with.
Jerks naturally don't have to work on their big ego; it comes naturally. So they don't understand other people's egos or feelings and in turn aren't receptive to it, and... well, complete jerks.
2007-12-09 18:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what i have literally like been begging for someone to feel the same way as me about guys. I mean i just posted a question, and no guy has the decency to answer. I mean honestly. Why are some guys so conceited that they think they are the shizz* i think that's just so unattractive. and the poor guys with low confidence but a good heart never get a second look. Seriously it makes me furiated that the a**holes get all the good things in life and all the decent worthy people of other peoples love get Jack shizz..
2007-12-09 07:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because jerks are narcissists and psychopaths without a conscience and sweet people take on the weight and guilt of the world. Sweet people were raised to think about everyone and everything other than themselves.
2007-12-08 17:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by noodlesmycat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The jerks, of course, think that they're gods gift to women & that all women want to be with them. The sweet, nice guy knows that he's not god's gift but he's the guy who's very thoughtful and doesn't treat women as sexual objects as the jerk does.
2007-12-08 17:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Judith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a word - Maturity.
2007-12-08 17:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋