i dont have a personality?

Question

i was told i dont have a personality, what does that mean?

Answer 1

thats bad really bad...get help

Answer 2

Unfortunately it means that your dull, and uninteresting. It means that you have no passion, no hook, nothing special. It's like your a shell of a person, who's no different from any one else, like you live day to day just doing whatever and nothing else. It's like you have no soul, nothing memorable about you. you have no distinguishable qualities. you're like a zombie.

Have no fear however, just because someone makes the petty insult that you have no personality doesn't mean you don't. No one can tell you, you have no personality. You may just be quiet and reserved, just because you don't always say something all the time doesn't mean that you're as I put it a "zombie". Maybe if you want to change just try being more animated. Try emoting more.

You are not a Zombie no matter what anyone else says!

Answer 3

It's true that looks are probably what people judge first, and perhaps what makes one person first attracted to another. Yes, everyone would prefer a super-attractive boy/girlfriend, there's no doubt about it. But I also feel that many relationships don't work out because of this. In the beggining of a relationship, you're just simply physically attracted to each other; when you finally figure out 'who' the other person *really* is, you lose interest if you're not compatible. In my opinion, people are a lot less shallow than they think, when it comes down to choosing a mate. Yes, you'd prefer someone attractive, but if someone not 'model pretty' comes along, but is absolutely perfect and kind and caring for you, you'd go for 'em.

Answer 4

That person probably meant you do not have any personal trait that makes you stand out amongst the people around you. It can also mean you lack humour. Or, it can mean that you simply don't stand out at all and can probably blend in with the surrounding furniture without people noticing you...

But this is only that person's opinion. Don't let it get to you because the person that made that comment probably didn't care for your feelings and opinion anyway, so why should you care about his/her's?

Answer 5

Well, it really depends on who says it, but I think that the person who says it just doesn't know you well enough.

Everyone has a personality, no matter who it is. However, if you don't really show your feelings, etc., how is one supposed to know what you are like?
Or perhaps, as someone else said before, they just think that you may be a bit.. boring, or bland--and that really depends on the person again, since to one person, you might be boring, but to another, you might be the most fun person ever ;)
Hope everything works out!

Answer 6

It means that you are not able to catch attention of others. There are several ways of doing it like better dress, make-up, etc., but I will tell you one simple thing. Read books on jokes. You won,t be able to resist telling them to others and most people like jokes and they would like to hear you. There are experts who help develop personality.

Answer 7

You do have a personality. They were insulting you, possibly because they are insecure about them selves.

Personality is the way you behave. Saying you have no personality is as silly as saying there is no weather today.

Answer 8

I would guess that if someone said that to you, they might mean you are quiet, or non-reactive, maybe don't talk much? Well everyone has a PERSONALITY. Yours just might be placid. There is nothing wrong with that either.

Answer 9

They are trying to insult you. It will only bother you if you let it. Next time, ask this question on the "psychology" forum, as your lack of cognitive ability does not belong in the Physics category.

Answer 10

It means the person who told you that is an idiot everyone has a personality but everyone personality is different.

Answer 11

Baby girl every one has you just arn't old enough to understand. Some people, their not smart and they don't say smart things. So here is my advice to you, find out things you like, things you like to talk about, and DON'T ever do or say something just because someone else does. Just find out who you are.