i feel my whole world is falling apart, and nobody is giving me a hand to keep it all together. maybe just for someone to hear me out!
2007-12-08 17:19:21 · 15 answers · asked by something crazy 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You have done the first step of addressing your problem , recognition of your problem . Is your exam coming yet or finished already ? If coming yet , its no use to be stressed it will just add to your problem and during exam it will just block your mind shut.
Since you said you were not able to fix the issue with your GF , then don't think about it now , nothing you do now will fix the problem , you have more pressing things to attend to , your exam . If your GF loves you then this issue will wait , and if she could not wait and give you another chance then move on .
How do you prepare for your exam without getting stressed . (I think you are cramming now , thats why nothing sticks in your mind) Prioritize subjects to study more and subjects to study less . Those subjects that you are quite good at or have a better understanding , study them first but give them a shorter time . Those subjects you are finding hard time , go for study group review , find your best buddies that are knowledgeable on the subject help you along or go to the internet and go key in the subject you need help and they have tutor or sample problems that could be helping you along . Be sure to get all the sample problems that represent the subjects you are needing help , so you could review and solve on your own to get to the answer . This will help you a lot . No need to panic , if you have neglected working on your subjects and assignment before due maybe or not of your girlfriend matter(??)then nothing to loose in trying my suggestions.
Now its another problem when your exam has come and gone , so no need to be stressed . whats done is done . If you failed . try harder next time and know why you failed . Girlfriends they should be motivations to do good not to waylaid your plans and dissappoint your parents.
2007-12-08 17:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to be insensitive, but one of the things about being adult is making your own way. That doesn't mean you shouldn't rely on people to be your friend or anything. What it does mean is that you have to make decisions that are going to be good for you. Other people can't keep your life together for you. If the relationship w ur gf is stressing you too much and you can't fix it, then you should stop having a gf until you are finished w exams, so that you can concentrate on what you need to do. You need to pass those exams for your long term well being. So you should put them ahead of having a girlfriend at this point in your life.
While you're trying to sort this out, remember these issues--even tho' they seem very large to you right now--are only temporary.
And if you want someone to give you a hand in keeping it all together, try your parents if you have them. You might think they are old and every thing, but you also might be surprised at how well they understand and how nice they can be, and how smart they really are about stuff you didn't think they even knew about. It might not even hurt to follow their advice. They care the most about you of anybody, if they're like most parents.
Also, talk to God. He cares about what's going on in your life.
The most important thing, though, is for you to make smart decisions because what you decide right now is what you will live with for the rest of your life.
2007-12-09 01:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Talk to someone at home or at school about the stress. There may be a better way to manage the issues in you life. Someone can help you figure out what that is.
2007-12-09 01:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Elphaba The Wicked 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try to focus on one issue and since you can't delay exams, that is your focus. Tell gf that you need time and don't want to make any decisions until after the exams. She should understand, especially if she is in college too. once exams are done, you will have an appropriate amount of time to focus on the relationship, and at that time, do so. Good luck
2007-12-09 01:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by msbalisong 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I hear you, but I think a big problem is taking on too many things at once, first I would not have a g/f in the middle of school, second I would fix one thing at a time instead of everything overwhelming you
2007-12-09 01:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by mexikostadt 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My life mirrors your's at this moment. Just take a deep breath and remember that soon it will all be over and you will be able to relax after all of those exams.
2007-12-09 01:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by skrdude8389 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then this is a point of time whereby you can judge her faithfulness to you. If she cannot stop her nonsense and tolerate with your studies, how would she be able to live with you for the rest of your life?
So relax, put your studies as the 1st priority.
2007-12-09 01:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Get rid of the girl...they're all a dime a dozen anyway. Work on them exams, and make da cash. Then the women will come....wheee!
2007-12-09 01:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by Haywood 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Forget girls and prepare well for exams. Your career is more important. All the very best for your exams.
2007-12-09 01:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
you'll probably pass your exams an dit's not like you're gonna marry the chick. who gives a hoot.
2007-12-09 01:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by copy^cat 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋