For instance, my brother is always trying to tell his girlfriend that he doesn't want her to drink, and if she does, he gets mad. She also has a set of rules she doesn't want him doing. I don't know about you, but this bugs the crap out of me. I hate seeing couples making sets of rules for each other. I would never tell my boyfriend what he can and cannot do. if I don't like something he's doing, then I shouldn't be with him, that's how I feel. How do you feel about couples doing this? all opinions are welcomed, even if you disagree.
2007-12-08 16:38:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You are completely right. I have been with women who drink and I didn't like it. And I had women who didn't like my hobbies or interests so I couldn't do them when I was around them (I mean things like watch the Simpsons!) I didn't know it then, but I know it now that I don't want to be with anybody like that again. I will not change for anybody and I don't want to have to mold somebody to be who I want them to be. It's not worth it.
2007-12-08 16:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is some thing--ok you seem to desire what you cant have. When it seems available u dont want it-bottom line he is not a potential husband--what will fulfill you first is from above-Jesus the savior to be your best friend=John chapter 3 as I did too repented of my sins and got born again. prayin for you to see the big picture, your worth a true love-and first you already got one In Jesus-what will you do with it??? and i use to drink and live slutty, Jesus gives me joy and inner peace better than any of the old stuff ever did. now i got a good Christian g/f and we respect and honor each other and keep Jesus first. best to you too.
2016-04-08 02:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a difference between voicing a concern about things and blatantly trying to control someone. if i don't like something that he does, in the end he can listen to what i have to say, but it probably won't influence what he decides to do. being in a relationship doesn't mean having to answer to one another. i don't think that's the sign of a healthy situation for either person.
2007-12-08 16:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by fiore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Controlling situations are unhealthy and sometimes turn physical. My philosophy is like yours: don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Walk beside me and be my friend.
2007-12-08 16:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by John M (back 2 my abnormal self) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't like it. I think it is unhealthy for both parties. Two adults should respect each other abilities to behave like adults.
2007-12-08 16:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Elphaba The Wicked 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i don't like rules if i don't like it id just tell him and if he chooses not to do it then that's fine but if he contuse doing it and i done like it then he can hit the road.. but if he tells me i cant do something then he better not be doing it ithere...
2007-12-08 19:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bugs the **** out of me. If you can't accept them for who they are, then what are you doing with them, ya know?
2007-12-08 16:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I FEEL that if they are getting it on, then it's none of my business what the terms of agreement are!!!
2007-12-08 16:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told you to be quite and bend over already ;)
2007-12-08 17:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
not a big deal for me...
2007-12-08 23:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by kyrios 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋