was to get married to your only best friend, !!
What will you do, how would you feel??
would you forgive them?? Will you get over it??
Please imagine yourself in that situation, imagine yourself asking, if the one person you love or loved was to marry your best friend, and you had no idea that they were to be getting married, nor you have imagined that, What will you do in that situation??
2007-12-08 16:33:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Lebanon
Kate, bala falsafeh and answer the question please!!!
2007-12-08 18:11:11 · update #1
funny that you ask this question because I'm so paranoid of this happening to me. if it does happen to me i will have no choice because the guy will already be married and nothing i do will change that fact. if the friend knew that i loved the guy and still married him, i would hate her guts forever. but if she didn't know that i loved him...i really cant blame her. i would feel so sad...but i would get over it quick. i have had a lot of bad luck in my life and have been through so many disappointments that I've become used to them and they don't affect me as much now as they did before.
2007-12-08 18:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse i would be shocked,i would try my best to forget about the person that i loved cuz if i dont than whats the use in getting all depressed about the whole situaion when u cant do nothing about it or change a thing,whats done is done,u cant change the past.
And i would forgive them and move on with breaking our relationship that we had between me and my best friend and the person i loved cuz i cant go on living with these 2 as if nothing happened or nothing bothered me when it really did.
Kelshi 2ousmo naseb,so we have to live life the way it takes us.
2007-12-09 15:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well a very unfortunate thing to go through.. I would guess that a wave of emotions would rush through me in such a way I wouldn't be able to think straight..
Anger, for being decieved by people I loved.
Sadness, for losing two people I loved.
and those are just two major emotions that have words..
Eventually as time passes, and if I hadn't gone mental and done something I regretted. Well I would just move on, I would know that they are obviously people I don't need in my life, and then I would lean on my mom, or dad. Well in my case.. .my aunt... just someone I know I can trust, which will be hard to do after this..
Time and tears really.... and hopefully something good will come out of the situation..
Lots of Luck to ya...
2007-12-09 00:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by waysofkarma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why the person that I love is going to get married to my best friend in the first place...why isn't he getting married to me? Does he not love me?
if that guy that you loved so much doesn't love you back then it's just a crush you have on him and you'll get over it soon enough (btw married men are not that attractive)
if that guy loves you back then why is he marrying someone else...you should have a talk with him and clear things up
2007-12-09 02:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kate :-) 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is something I would, nor could, get over. I would feel betrayed by both, no matter HOW unjustified the feeling. I would not be able to continue the friendship, not out of anger, but because of the pain I'd feel any time I looked at either.
2007-12-09 00:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the wedding and make a scandal. I would throw the wedding cake on my Best friend (the bride)!
Seriously , in that situation, I would feel helpless, I would feel frustrated, unloved and miserable, very miserable. I would suffer a lot and cry for ages. But... as I am, I would accept things as they are and forgive them at the end..... That's me.
2007-12-09 20:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Bélier 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay, well my best friend would know that i loved the guy, and if she went after him then she isnt a real friend anyways just a desperate hoe
and if that guy loved me, he wouldnt go with my best friend!! if he does it means he didnt really love me, and i would be better off without him cuz i deserve somebody who would treat me better than that and wouldnt put me in such a complicated situation
if i truley loved this guy, then this is gonna hurt alot
and if i really trusted my best friend, its gonna hurt too
but if anybody were to ever hurt u this bad, they arent worth ur time if they were worth ur time they wouldnt do anything to hurt u
i wouldnt forgive either of them for screwing me over like that, shu badee fehuum i can make a new friend and find a different guy
2007-12-09 12:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by ABANDONED 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would marry my lovers best friend... :-P Bad joke.. i know that... This wud be the worst thing that can happen to you and I have seen it happen... But the affected person just continued to live life and I guess these are wounds that only time can heal...So sweets keep urself occupied and you will be doin just fine and the healing process will be faster.. :-)
2007-12-09 00:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Santa Claus 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be devastated. But life is not a fairy tale. We don't always get what we want or live happily ever after with our Prince Charming. So, if that happened...I imagine I would try my best to forget them and find happiness elsewhere.
2007-12-09 00:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That s why you dont have to introduce women or men to the person you love...
Better avoid friendships like this, and live your love without socializing so much..Many times friends are snakes
2007-12-09 16:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Leonarda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋