A very good friend of my husband and I gave us some money to fix our air conditioner last year because he had inherited allot of money and he knew we we in a tough spot financially. We started not to hang out as much because he wasn't the same person as he was now with all the money, we then get a text msg asking for his money.... we tell him he said we didn't have to pay it back and that we don't have the money and we were expecting our first child and just filed for bankruptcy ect.. Then every few months he would send the same msg until 6 months ago they started to get worse he started to tell my husband that im a whore and i slept with him and the baby is not his ect i don't need to go into detail. Anyways we tried to ignore them but now he is saying he has pictures (maybe nude or something) of me and he gave them to some friends and he is going to send them to people and again the name calling and stuff like that. I live inTexas
2007-12-08 16:20:12 · 7 answers · asked by nicole k 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Why would he just give you the money? You got your A/C fixed. You owe him, pay the man.
2007-12-08 16:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ti 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should have tried to set up some kind of payment plan. You fixed you AC, now pay the man back. You have had a year to save money so you should have something for him. My question is if you can't afford to pay your bills and you end up filing bankruptcy, why are you having a child? Things won't get any easier now.
You shouldn't have to worry about the pictures, unless he did catch you in some kind of compromising position, than worry.
I hope you learned a lesson here, don't borrow money from friends or family. If you do get money from them, PAY THEM BACK!!!
2007-12-09 00:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by HAGAR!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Name him in the bankruptcy
2. Call his bluff, have your husband tell the "friend" that he would like the pictures for his album, (but only if there is no chance of the pictures existing)
2007-12-09 00:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Gray Wanderer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call an attorney, you ca take some of HIS money! What he is doing is slander and is punishable by law.
Or just report him to your County District Attorney. This will cost you nothing.
2007-12-09 00:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are the pictures really of you? Why are you acting worried? All and all, it seems you guys are jealous of his money. You know you owe him, pay your debt.
2007-12-09 00:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you havent done anythign wrong then at least you won't have to worry about that.... im not sure what you can do legally against him. maybe a restraining order?
2007-12-09 00:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, report to police. This is harrasment.
2007-12-09 00:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋