hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious
2007-12-08 15:11:09 · 14 answers · asked by Danielle K 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
If he is not pushing for sex, then I would think that he probably cares about you. He probably just wishes it would work out between you both.
2007-12-08 15:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Google Rules! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know how old you are (post additional information including that), but if he's a teenager, and you are as well, then he might actually be using you as a booty call. What I mean is that, some guys get satisfaction out of being able to go over a girl's house and get with them, even if it is just getting with them. He may be just playing you,, if I would assume anything about this guy, it'd be that he doesn't have an interest in you and he probably is doing this with other girls =\. BUT, that's merely an assumption.
I would confront him about it though, try to get a feel for what he really thinks about you. If you're still interested, then maybe another relationship (if it's ok with him) is a possibility.
Just giving my pessimistic point of view, maybe he's just not over you yet.
Best of luck
2007-12-08 23:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he's dating someone else at the moment and depending on what he says:
"Yes, I am": Then ask him why the two of you are still hooking up, because that's what yall are doing and that he's hurting you.
"No, I am not": Then tell him your feelings and ask him why he still calls you every week.
If he says "IDK" or "it's none of your business", then tell him to stop calling you because someone else is interested in you and you need to move on. If it's just friends then stop seeing him SO MUCH and stop making out! I don't think your really consused over why he's interested in you, I think your confused about why your still interested in him. That's the source of your confusion, you still have lingering feelings for each other. If he gets pissed off and says anything hurful just walk away...
2007-12-08 23:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like mr. ex isn't totally over you yet. If he's calling you up to hang out still then it means he still wants to be with you. Before jumping to this conclusion and running with it I'd highly suggest talking to him about it. Tell him you want to know whether he still wants to be together, and if he doesn't he should stop giving you all that attention as it gives the wrong impression.
2007-12-08 23:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does have feelings for you and he misses you, he just doesn't have time for you. OR, he's using you trying to keep you around and thinking he likes you but he's just saving you for a rainy day...
Just talk to him and find out what he wants. That's the only way to know for sure. (unless he lies...Hey, I don't know the guy,...would he lie to you?) Just talk to him
Good Luck!
2007-12-08 23:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by CareBear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u still like him think about that ask if he is dating anyone if he is than that is wrong and u should not be dating anyone while this is happening either if u r than u need to pick hun
2007-12-08 23:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by someone beatiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he cares but isn't sure if he's ready for a commitment or not.
2007-12-08 23:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the promblem is on both of you. you and him are not together anymore but still kiss each other. you too still like each other!!! why did you break up?!!!
2007-12-08 23:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Beto 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is either a flirt or wants u bac
2007-12-08 23:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget him,im avaliable : D lol
2007-12-08 23:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋