I started my period when I was ten and when I was eleven I had a boyfriend and we started to kiss and it became sexual. My mom had a pregnancy test and I stole it, I used it and it said positive! I havent had my period in three months, my breasts are sore, and I have a small bulge in my belly! My parents or bofriend do not know. Should I tell them? Can I like "fall down the stairs to make it die? I am really scraed please help! Please don't criticize me I am asking for help!!!
2007-12-08 13:51:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sweetie you really need to tell your parents first then your boyfriend. I know you are scared but your parents will be able to help you through this. Please don't fall down the stairs or do anything to try to harm the baby. You could seriously hurt yourself in the process. Good luck and God bless.
2007-12-08 13:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Krissy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know you are scared to tell your parents about this for fear of the end result but you CANNOT do this or go through this yourself. If you cannot get up the courage to tell your parents yourself, go to your school nurse on Monday. If you are pregnant (which it sounds like you are), you need to have check-ups with a doctor to make sure the baby is growing correctly so that the baby will be healthy when it is born. If you don't do this soon, there is the possibility that something might go wrong with the baby's development and then you could give birth to a baby with a handicap of some sort which would make your life even more difficult. I wouldn't wish this on anyone if you can do something now that may prevent this. Please talk to someone NOW. I know you are scared - anyone your age would be but you have got to have help to get through this. Falling down stairs may injure you but not the baby so I would not advise you to even think about this anymore. Tell SOMEONE, PLEASE!
2007-12-08 22:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by J B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will need to tell your parents for sure. I would wait until you have been checked out by a doctor to tell your boyfriend. If you are afraid you may want to seek some sort of counseling or other help first. You may want to start by going to Planned Parenthood or calling a crisis pregnancy line. You have many options, but at such a young age, your parents will have to be involved in the process of deciding what to do. It is really important that you stay healthy and try to keep the baby healthy until you have figured out what to do. Don't try to kill the baby, anything you did could harm you. Not only that, but if you succeded and did not get proper medical care afterward, that could kill you too. Good luck hun!
2007-12-08 22:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by phreadriquebean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you need to tell someone about this soon. Don't be scared. They might be angry..only because they love you. You can always get an abortion OR give the child up for adoption OR keep the baby...its really YOUR choice.
And DO NOT fall down the stairs. that probably would not kill the baby, but it could seriously hurt you!
I really wish you the best!!! im so sorry that ur in this situation but you can make it better!!
2007-12-08 22:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by JulyFire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my gosh! Poor hun! Go talk to your mom A.S.A.P.! At three months, you can no longer get an abortion (if you were even thinking about that...), so you should see a doctor AS SOON AS POSSIBLE to learn about all of your options. There's pre-natal vitamins that are necessary for the baby and it may have already missed three months of those. Plus, you need a doctor to assess your physical health RIGHT NOW, because your body just may not be able to handle going through a pregnancy and also, for the health of the child.
PLEASE, for goodness' sake, get off the Internet and go speak with your mom! Good luck.
2007-12-08 22:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Colli M. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, go to your parents and tell them right now!. No matter how angry they get they will still love you. You cannot just fall down a stair and make this problem go away. You may have a new life growing inside you and only you and your parents can do the right thing by protecting it's life. Tell them right away. You are to young to have a baby yet.
2007-12-08 22:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by grtj02 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Falling down the stairs won't do it. It'll soon become pretty apparent that you're pregnant so I'd suggest going to your mom and telling her about it. You're getting too late to do anything about it if you did want some sort of options in this--wait another month and you're going to HAVE to have the baby.
Tell your mom. Don't be scared.
2007-12-08 21:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well if you fall off the stairs you're gonna end up in the hospital and the docotor is gonna tell your parents that you're pregnant. Not only that but you're gonna be in a lot of pain. I advice you to give that child for adoption. A child can't take care of another child.
2007-12-08 22:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by ▀▄▀▄▀ кαяίs ▄▀▄▀▄ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy at your age can be really difficult and dangerous. For your sake and your baby's sake, you need to tell your mom. Anything that can hurt the baby can hurt you too. If you're scared to tell her outright, you could try writing her a note and give it to her before you leave for school, but you need to see a doctor.
2007-12-10 14:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first, bad descision, secondly dont kill it. if you are pregnant, that baby doesnt have a reason not to live. it was your mistake dont make the baby suffer. tell your mom, sure you will get in trouble, but your parents want what is best for you. there are other option besides abortion or killing it. talk to your parents or a trusted adult and they can help you. and im sorry, but you are probably pregnant. you were acting like an adult when you had intercourse, so you should now act like an adult and not kill this baby and take responsiblities for your actions. sorry, but that is my strong belief and opinion.
2007-12-08 22:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋