I feel so down and lonely at this time of year. My family is out of state, and I'll be visiting them around x-mas time, but it's the lead-up to x-mas that gets me down
I see couples walking together, families, too. I see exchanges of love and care. I see mutual respect and love shared. Yet, I'm just an outsider looking in. There's no one for me. I'm 35 and alone
I don't understand songs - thought of love and yearning intertwined to notes. People have sensitivity, but not for me. I'm alone and lonely. I have to grip with this thought daily. I see young women with big diamonds on their finger. I try to not notice; to continue my life's journey with my head up, but I cry and feel hopeless. I meet people who take some interest, and see they're being just thoughtful as they are married; otherwise, they are looking for some extramarital bliss
I know I'm not alone in this world. I know others may be feeling exactly what I'm feeling at this very moment too. What can one do to get thru this?
2007-12-08 12:15:18 · 8 answers · asked by advice 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
when ever I am down I always try to forget myself and go help someone elts. Why don't you go do some volinteering at a homeless shelter or something. Once you forget yourself and where you are in life then you will really feel happy. That is what Christ taught and He is who we are celebrating this time of year anyway right?
2007-12-08 12:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With the possibility of sounding like a nut, reconnect with your inner self and fill the void through showing yourslef Love. If you are a spiritual person, this is the time to build on that and soon enough the lonelyness will leave you. It's really the only thing that fills the hole long-term.
Peace & Love this season and Always
2007-12-08 12:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by HC Johnson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I am 31 and my family is way too far to visit, and it looks like I'll be having a Xmas alone, for 3d time in the row, and I am not complaining. Go find something to keep your mind occupied. Clean the house, get your projects finished, etc.
2007-12-08 12:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
merely think of. from time to time I wish i could have been this manner. My chum Aleah she is likewise 21 by no skill been kisses by no skill even got here on the brink of dating a guy. Very exceedingly too, yet seems are not each little thing. Shes at school, on good of her activity. great lady. She sees all of us getting married and he or she thinks shes a form of those which will die single. I defined to her with each little thing that occurs in a dating bear in recommendations that great feeling that first comes is barely non everlasting, no longer something final continuously. nevertheless while it is it sluggish to locate that real lady, you wont be dealing with 0.5 the crap me or others went to. once you get married it somewhat is going to be stunning, and you could commence your existence mutually the excellent way. Heartbreak sucks hun it extremely does. So bear in recommendations once you meet her risk is she would be the single youll be marring. it somewhat is going to be the excellent feeling ever. merely carry on tight. no longer merely will you have some one great on your existence, youll be triumphant too. Your a blessed individual!
2016-10-10 21:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by stealy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think the Holiday Season is bad, just wait until Springtime. Walmart for some reason happens to sell rope and sleeping pills at lower prices then.
2007-12-08 12:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do something fun, most likley go out
2007-12-08 12:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by Delightful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have some fun, meet new people, call your friends! go clubbing.
2007-12-08 12:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by :o) Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have friends?
2007-12-08 12:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by 2pac died for your sins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋