Im the most sadistic person i know lol. i usually find myself jealous of my friends, and hoping something bad will happen to people. its become a large part of my personality and want to know how to stop it.
2007-12-08 12:06:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
nope......
2007-12-08 12:13:42 · update #1
yeah i guess people envy me for things too. i have a car and people envy my humor and i got me some bathin apes
2007-12-08 12:28:37 · update #2
The feeling of jealousy is a sign that your hanging around people that have certain traits that you don't and ones that you may want .
It's cool that you can admit to being jealous but you shouldn't wish bad things upon other people. Surrounding yourself with people who have characteristics that you desire is a great idea because you will soon find that they will rub off on you. They can even teach and influence you to be more like them in some ways as long as you don't forget what you have and what you are.
Write a list of all the great things about yourself... Personality and appearance wise.. then compare them to some people you are jealous of. You will soon find that they have their equal share of flaws just like you do.
The only way you can really get rid of jealousy is if you have nothing to be jealous of.
Focus on what you have and be grateful... once you find all the great things about yourself, they will totally out-weigh all the bad.
Trust me on this one, Love yourself for who you are and stop wanting things that you weren't given. You have things that many other people envy... you just don't realize!
2007-12-08 12:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound envious and vengeful but not necessarily "sadistic". Wanting to stop it is the first step in doing so but you probably need some professional help to find out how you got this way in the first place.
2007-12-08 20:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by LucaPacioli1492 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i love my friends and love to be happy in their victories , but i don't think your abnormal. most people are jealous. ive heard a suggestion that to change behavior put a rubberband on your wrist and when you catch your bad behavior, snap it!
2007-12-08 20:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have ghandi as your idol and become peaceful like he was.
or get into therapy. they can help you a lot.
2007-12-08 20:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by baywatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋