i have the hots for a girl... i am bi, i have known this for some time now, having a crush on a girl is not what is bothering me... she this girl is a butch, and i have never been attracted to that kind... and i have a bf... but i have a small crush on this girl. Can someone that may know how the female head works tell me what is going on with this?
2007-12-08 11:57:59 · 12 answers · asked by sexy momma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sew up your middle
2007-12-08 12:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by timbo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you are fancing this girl as you like her personality. or the fact that she's butch is attracting you this time, because you may be liking the fact she could protect you, or maybe lead the relationship if you had one with her.
you need to figure it out yourself, people are attracted to others for many reasons that outsiders cannot sometimes see, or that you may not know yourself until afterwards.
2007-12-08 12:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by sarah b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't profess to know anything about the female mind. But, could it be that you are attracted to this person because of the personality of this person. I have known people that, deep down, I could see were not that attractive, but because of who they were, I thought they were down right hot.
2007-12-08 12:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by stevenhendon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, some people are being stupid, if your bi its natural to feel that way about girls and guys, and even if your straight, you can still have feelings for someone else while in a realationship, it just happens. if youre bi, you shouldnt be judging this girl for being 'butch'. just like her for who she is!
2007-12-08 12:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by (a)(b)(c)(d)(e)rin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are attracted to the unknown, and she is a mystery your body feels it wants to get to know. Something about her attracts you, go for it! BF or no BF, be her friend and see what happens.; Is your BF acceptable to your sexual preference? Will he allow you to confront your curiosity? I say go for it!
2007-12-08 12:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by luckychrmz_70 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are bi and have a b/f but you are just attracted to a new type nothing big just exploring your tastes and your are starting to c what u like.
2007-12-08 12:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by mom4dafirst time Oct 7thGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you have something us doctor call wierd it may afect 4 a while but drink lots of water and go 2 sleep a lot
2007-12-08 12:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
have a 3 way and see who is better in bed, and if you find the chick better in bed, lose the dude in a forest somewhere.
2007-12-08 12:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seek counseling.
2007-12-08 12:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just befriended them, so you'll have an array of choices.
2007-12-08 12:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by leon adrianto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋