I find it fun to put myself in situations where girls could make me dress up as a girl and then get myself out of it, its an adrenaline rush because i really dont want it to happen but each time i do it the different girls get closer and closer to wanting to do it....should i stop now and be safe?? or keep playing the game and just accept the embarassing consequences when it happens??...how bad do you think it would be for me?
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like you know...making bets where id have to dress up if i lost, or joking around and teasing and callin girls sissy and worthless, or offering to let a girl pick my halloween costume, just situations where a girl could make it happen....and then if they try to make me do it its a big adrenaline rush cause its scary as hell....then its kind of a game cause i have to talk my way out of having to do it
2007-12-08 11:46:38 · 21 answers · asked by asphault12 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
haha no i dont already "dress"
i just like to see how close i can get before they actually "force" me to do it lol...i guess my question is how bad is it going to be for me if one of them really decides to make me do it?? i dont really know how evil girls can be and i dunno if i should just completely stop for fear of what would happen to me
2007-12-08 12:09:45 · update #1
It seems that you like to cross-dress & want to dress-up as a girl, so keep doing what you're doing if you're having fun. I'm sure some girl has picked up on you wanting to dress-up as a girl & the one who always helps you be a girl is just waiting for you to ask her to dress you up & then you won't need to play anymore games or make bets.
jk
2007-12-08 15:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are coming off as kinda gay...
I'm not saying you are though. It's a good thing you realized this before you ended up on day as a street corner transvestite. I vote stop now and be safe, but I know how hard it is when you become addicted to the adrenaline rush it give you. So if you don't stop, at least slow it down, as much as you can handle. I know you are thinking that you'll never become one of those creepy transvestites, but think about it. How do all of them start out?Just like this. Or similar, at least.
2007-12-08 11:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should sto at all. girls think it's adorable when you let them do things liek that. And when they do it, they think it's really funny (in a good way) and are glad that you were a good sport. You probably shouldn't seem eager to do it, but you should do it and act like oyu didn't want to. It's endearing. The embarassment will jsut make the ladies liek you more. ;D
2007-12-08 11:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by omfgska 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're enacting one of the commonest transvestite fantasies .... enforced dressing, feminization, sissification .... always by dominant women :-)
Being involuntarily "turned into a girl" is a big theme of fantasy literature .... just check Google if you want stories !
Nothing wrong with it .... just enjoy it and let your imagination ride free .... after all being turned on is 80% mental, just 20% visual ?
And I bet you "dress" anyway - be honest !
2007-12-08 12:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by laura_eva_b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you sound like a dumbas5. Stop making a fool of yourself. You need to seriously find a new way to get that adrenaline rush.
2007-12-08 11:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Remy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol u do what makes u happy dont do it cuz someone wants to make fun of u..... just be urslef if i was u i would be silly and dress up as a girl and dance a girl then get out of the clothes and laugh along no need to be embassed have fun u not gonna become gay trust me
2007-12-08 11:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think it makes perfect sense...for a normal guy having to get completely dressed upas a girl is one of the most embarrassing and scarist things there is....but you are gonna be oohh so ****** when you end up walking around your local mall in a dress and high heels ; )
2007-12-08 11:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its fine. and if you let the girls dress you up, you would be so much more popular with them. besides, every guy dresses up as a girl at least one point in their life. just don't make a habit out of it.
2007-12-08 11:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by Isithrade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't let them take pictures, man.....that kind of thing can resurface 5-10-15 years later when you're running for public office, trying to marry a straight rich girl, get a promotion....
2007-12-08 11:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think you fanatize about doing drag. I don't understand the part about being scared of it though. Lots of people dress in drag.
2007-12-08 11:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋