omg whats wrong with teens today?

Question

im 16 and at school all these girls are talking about how they had sex and stuff. its pretty gross and im like wtf? your only 16..what happens if you get pregnant? why cant ppl control whats in their pants? i know its hormones and teens are always horny, but thats no excuse

Answer 1

i know what u mean im 18 and still a vrigin i just dont understand why teens throw away there virginity like its nothing and have sex with anyone and get pregnant and stds and act like its nothing abortion isnt birth control i dont know why more teens dont understand that though i do know some teens are like u and me and responisble and mature in there decision to have sex or abstane from it

Answer 2

I know!!!! Once I got to high school I was mortified with all the knocked up chicks and hornyness! I never use the bathrooms there, what if someone gave birth on the toilet!!!! XD


Honestly just watch and laugh at them, they're making bad descions and you're one of the smart ones who knows they'll be paying for it in the future.

Have a star!!

Answer 3

With any hope, they are all talk and very little action. But apparently they think that it is cool to be having sex and being slu*ty. Because that is what it is. And they will NOT think it is cool when they are older and have STD's and are having kids at the ripe old age of 18. Additionally, their first experiences will not be fond memories and they will cheapen themselves. So, really, you are the one that has the upper hand here! And a very level head, hang onto that...it is an awesome thing.

Answer 4

Most teens think with their hormones while fantasizing.It is because they are immature and their parents are more immature and naive.The parents LET them date because they think they are doing them a favor by being too lazy to keep up with their kids and make sure they arent putting them into situations where they will likely let their hormones over rule common sense.I dont blame the teens, I blame their parents ro lack thereof.

Answer 5

Well most don't think of the consequences..and think they are in love most of the time..My boyfriend and i have decided to wait until marriage because we want something to look forward too. I don't think anyone should judge other people for having sex though..its a personal decision..you're not doing it..and thats all you need to be concerned with. If other people want to have sex..that is there choice.

Answer 6

Not all teens are like that, but I think that most of it are lies and are just for showing off. I have one friend who always goes on about having sex and drinking, when really, she's just saying that for attention.

Keep thinking that way, sex is for adults, not kids like us.

Answer 7

What a mature girl! I'm proud that there is a smart teen girl afterall! Look at it this way, you'll be the one headed on a straight road. Others will have detours. You have alot ahead. Stay safe.

Answer 8

Those who repress themselves often end up very abusive religious nutters like those who burnt alive witches, stone girls to death or abuse gay people or blow themelves up or to shooting sprees, or end up self harming or suicidal.


Whats correct is a gradual pregression of dating and realtioships from puppy love huggy dating to fully sexaully active dating over several years in teens with lots of parents support having have very extensive sex and realtioship ed from age four pre teen.

With parents and teachers heavily involved in contrception and sex ed.

Creating a very open socaiety that is very responsible and sensible with sexaukl health and contrception and developing balanced happy sexaul realtioships over teen years to form a good foundation for adult happy realtioships

In European countires like Holland all the teenagers still become sexaully active in mid to late teens but dont have anywhwre near the problems in uthe uk and us

SUCCESSFUL SEX ED COUNTRIES STATS AND INFO

http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/publications/factsheet/fsest.htm
http://www.nvsh.nl/english/index.htm

http://www.mistymedia.co.uk/blog/2005/09/29/dutch_sex_education/

http://www.channel4.com/learning/microsites/L/lifestuff/content/up_close/letstalksex/index.html

http://www.channel4.com/learning/microsites/L/lifestuff/content/up_close/letstalksex/dutch.html

http://www.channel4.com/learning/microsites/L/lifestuff/content/up_close/letstalksex/findoutmore.html

DUTCH SEX EDUCATION
www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/tcr/files/tcr/news/
europetour.xml#1119288090469::6998015254475574609
Blog of American sex educator on fact-finding tour round Europe, including trip to Netherlands


http://www.rutgersnissogroep.nl/English

Answer 9

I think it is because alot of the kids are doing it and people think it is cool. They really dont undestand that having sex has many consuqences like AIDS STD and pregnacy. Im 14 and know plenty of people who have had sex before. I want to wait until i know i can handle it.

xoxo
-Leah-

Answer 10

I TOALLY agree.

These girls will soon realise that it's not cool to be having sex, it just makes them look like sluts.

I secretly hope that these type girls will get some STD, not so they will be in pain or anything, just so that they will realise that one day, it could be much worse - because if they continue like that, it probably will.

Well...here's one thing, they'll have no problem getting boyfriends....boyfriends who want one thing.