follow up to cherry pop question... help!!?

Question

I know that i am young and most of you suggest that i dont have sex yet, that i am too young, but its somthing i haave been thinking about for a while, and i already made me decision (thank you tho) and i know to be safe and all of that i just want to know whats going to happen..? is it going to be alot of blood? and where will it go? like i have heard about girls at my school geting blood on guys and everyone finds out, like that could be really embarassing for me and i really dont need that... is there a way to know if yours is poped (without seeing a doctor?) is it healthy to do it my self? any other advice about my first time. please help !

Answer 1

ow hey, dont be worried! i was too and i imagined it so much worse than it actually was.

Yours will most likely of 'poped' already! mine had, anything from running, horse-riding etc etc will have done it. if it hasnt then it may be a little sore and you might see some blood in your knickers afterwards or a little bit on the end of the condom, but it wont all gush out or anything, it wont be really obvious.

if you want to do it yourself then your going to have to..for want of a better word...stick somthing up there lol. I mean something safe though and nothing that will hurt you, nothing sharp or anything like that.. a dildo would prob be best (gee this isnt a very lady like answer is it lol, sorry) or something in the shape of one like a cucumber - just make sure what ever it is is very clean!!

if you're going to have sex with someone who might tell everyone about it though then is he really trustworthy and worth him having your vaginity?

anyway, dont worry and goodluck:)

Answer 2

Just promise you use a condom.

That being said, to answer your question...yes, there will probably be some blood. Kind of like a light period day. It will go into your panties or on the sheets or whatever you are lying on, along with your other fluids that happens during sex. It may burn a little, but if you are really into the event, that shouldn't be too bad. Yes, if he bothered to look, he may see blood on his penis.

That brings the most important question...Why in God's name are you having sex with someone who would even think of blabbing ANY of the information to anyone else? The act of sex is supposed to be an act of love, which, in a MATURE relationship, means also an act of mutual respect.

I know you want to do it, but please wait until you have a guy who respects you...who loves you...who wouldn't have any desire to tell anyone anything about your relationship, ESPECIALLY what you two do alone in the dark.

I gotta say, sweetie, that if you treat this as just a physical thing, than you are no better than the skank-bags people are talking about all over the place now! I am sorry...but I am correct here.

Answer 3

Nothing "Pops" there is a small piece of skin that tears inside the vagina. There is usually very little to no blood. The hymen as it is called a lot of times tears before sex with tampons, sports riding bicycle etc. Not a big life changing thing. If fact the first sexual encounter is usually nothing to write home about. Good luck and use a condom.

Answer 4

Even using tampons before having had sex doesn't necessarily mean that it won't hurt your first time. I had been using tampons for 5+ years before having sex, and I still experienced pain as well as bleeding, which are both normal. If you're really intent on trying to 'pop the cherry' before having sex, try using a dildo. Long story short, for some girls it hurts, for others it doesn't. No way to tell til it happens. Good luck.

Answer 5

actually a lot of times it takes several times of sex to actually break the whole hymen.

no, there is not an enormous amount of blood, because you can actually have sex without penetrating the hymen completely. also, sometimes you dont bleed until after you are done having sex, and the blood will just leak onto your underwear so you might have to wear a pad for a few days just to make sure you dont stain your pants or anything.

but it is NOT healthy to do it yourself and it will reallyy hurt if you try to ... so i would suggest not trying that.

Answer 6

many teens tear their hymen (Cherry) while participating in sports, inserting tampons, or masturbating. You may not even know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood or pain involved when this happens. You should wait but it is ultimately up to you. I think you will be just fine if you do so. Remember you can only loose your virginity once so make sure it is what you really want and dont feel pressured.

Answer 7

If your hymen is intact, then you might have some bleeding. Also, if you are nervous, you might tend to tense up and this can cause a bit of discomfort and bleeding. There normally is not a lot of blood...I remember bleeding for part of the day but it wasn't like a period or anything heavy...but everyone is different.

Make sure that you use birth control!

Answer 8

Every women is different. There is a chance that you already had it popped. Th blood will go down. It hurt a little bit, like a painful pinch, and then afterwords it hurts a lot. you can do it yourself. Just stick something up there until you feel that pinch. Have fun. =]

Answer 9

i was young when i started too. for me, it hurt, i suggest lots of lubricant. when it pops, trust me, you'll know. it bleeds just as much as a paper cut would and it feels like you're putting a wooden stick thru a much smaller hole at first but it'll get better.

i WOULD tell you to wait, but that would be hypocritical since i was in your place once and made the same decision. i dont regret doing it, but i do regret the circumstances i was under to do it.

Answer 10

I UNDERSTAND THAT U DONT WANT PEOPLE TO JUDGE U ON YOURDECISION. TRUST ME I WONT. WHEN PEOPLE TLK ABOUT HAVING THERE CHERRY POPED THEY ARE USAULLY TLKIN BOUT THEYRE HYMN BREAKIN. YOUR HYMN IS A PIECE OF SKIN THAT BLOCKS YOUR VAGINAL PATH UNTIL U HAVE INTERCORSE. THAT IS NOT COMPLETELY TRUE THOUGH. I HAVE NEVER HAD SEX BUT MY HYMN HAS ALREADY BROKEN. IT DOESNT USUALLY LEAVE ALOT A BLOOD. IN FACT I DIDNT EVEN KNOT MY HYMN HAD BROKEN. MY MOM ALWAYS CHECKED ME WHEN I FIRST STARTED HAVIN PERIODS THAT HOW I FOUND OUT. I DONT KNOW ANYWAYS TO C IF IT HAS BEEN POPPED. BUT IT USUALLY BREAKS DURING HEAVY PHSICAL EXERCISE. OH YEAH IF U AT ANYTIME FEAL DOUBTS ABOUT DOING THIS ITS OKAY U DONT HAVE 2. ITS COMPLETELY YOUR CHOICE. WHEN I WAS ABOUT TO DO IT WITH THIS GUY. I FREAKED OUT AND DIDNT HE UNDERSTOOD AND WALKED ME HOME THAT WAY I WOULD B FINE.