we you cheat on him just to satisfy yourself or not
2007-12-08 05:36:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how about teach him how to satisfy you?
2007-12-08 05:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Show him what will satisfy you. Obviously he is not psychic and needs to be told. Don't ask us for permission if you want to cheat because it sounds like you're looking for that validation from here, for someone to say "yeah go ahead and get a friend with benefits."
2007-12-08 05:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have had this conversation. Sometimes sex with the same person time and time again gets a little boring and leads to unfulfillment on both parts. We now have an open marriage and it works fine for both of us. The most important part is to make sure you are open and honest in all dealings. I hope this helps
2007-12-08 05:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you won't cheat, but I suggest that you talk to him and be very specific about what it is the you like sexually and maybe good foreplay would be good. I can't speak for everybody else, but good sex starts in the mind and not just in the physical act.
2007-12-08 06:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by bigcat_78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never the answer. Talk to each other. Discuss what each of you like, or would like, things you'd like to try. Take the time to experiment; there's no time constraint. I always believe that communication is very important.
2007-12-08 05:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Playgirl channel :) Hope it helps :)
No cheating! Cheating BAD!! But try the playgirl channel, better that then lower your self-esteem, and then look like a ho in the eyes of your husband.
2007-12-08 05:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by acia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do something like that, try teaching him on what you want! Show him what you want, you are the one with all the insight of what pleases you. One night put some glasses on with your hair up as if your ah teacher, take him to "Pleasing Me 101!" I've been told that any man can please ah women with some sort of teaching. Think of him as ah virgin that you want to mold.
2007-12-08 13:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by pedebeed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's bad. Talk to your husband about it and tell him you are not satisfied.
2007-12-08 05:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not cheat on him. Maybe he just needs a little help. He might not know how to please you. You are the best one to teach him what you need and want. I am sure that he is willing to try and he would love to please you. Guide him along and show him what to do for you.
2007-12-08 05:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have found that out before marrying him. One more reason in favor of pre marital sex.
Or does your understanding see adultery as less of a sin?
2007-12-08 05:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like time for some training...
2007-12-08 05:48:35 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋